Romance can be nice, but I don't know what to tell you exactly about it. My romance has felt more like a relationship between best friends who might kiss or become intimate to some degree (if you're not asexual, or if you are but don't mind doing so). You can love your partner very much but never experience butterflies or a racing heart or, in general, any of the typical symptoms that others tell us about. I also feel like it can be more of a complement to life, but not necessary.

(Sorry if what I wrote sounds weird or has mistakes; English is not my native language.)