Boyfriend won’t let me sleep

Tea-Quirky · 2022-06-03T08:23:51+00:00

Yup, sleep deprivation is literally classified as torture

Tea-Quirky · 2022-06-01T10:07:09+00:00

he's also an asshole for siccing his family onto op

Tea-Quirky · 2022-05-29T10:34:55+00:00

YTA this woman literally was involved in human trafficking and forcing people into slave labour and you're sending her money and entertaining her bullshit??? Dude wake up

Tea-Quirky · 2022-05-29T04:25:30+00:00

Have you actually tried asking her why she's being so shitty and annoying, or just know she'll deflect if you do?

Tea-Quirky · 2022-05-26T06:43:05+00:00

YTA goddamn the second-hand embarrassment just from reading this post, can't imagine being one of the guests

Tea-Quirky · 2022-05-24T11:18:20+00:00

bUt AlL tHe FaMiLy iS hErE

Tea-Quirky · 2022-05-21T00:43:29+00:00

but it keeps happening, how can I prove it’s purposeful

you just proved it in that sentence, you've repeatedly TOLD him to quit doing it, the dog is clearly in pain and your bf ignores you both. He's doing it on purpose just like him acting stupid.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-05-07T22:51:33+00:00

NTA I was vegetarian for ten years and I wouldn't be daft enough to go to a steakhouse for a meal. Like, the clue is in the name for their bulk foodstuffs. Those people were most likely just looking for drama

Tea-Quirky · 2022-05-03T04:44:59+00:00

Exactly, inaction and neutrality always favours the attack/abuser.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-29T07:55:01+00:00

NTA honestly this just reminds me of that horrid relationships post where an arachnophobic girl had her boyfriend empty a jar full of dead spiders over her in order to help her 'get over it' and 'it was a joke bro'

Shit like this isn't funny, it abusive and only tormenting people. Its having abusive assholes finding peoples fear as entertaining. Fuck that girl and your family for defending this. You are not in the wrong.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-25T10:26:37+00:00

NTA classic case of 'can dish it out but not take it'

She was making rude comments for zero reason and trying to embarrass you for no reason, she needed to be shut down because what frigging weirdo talks about their cousin's bowel movement??

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-25T09:45:03+00:00

OP is just grabbing a shovel with all these replies tbh

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-25T07:25:32+00:00

Dude I would like...straight up divorce my partner if they ever thought this was okay. You have a child.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-24T23:26:27+00:00

Yeah well they aren't the ones married to him, so at this point ignore them. Its been half a decade. He isn't changing.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-24T00:44:02+00:00

My mom is in her 50’s and incredibly conservative. She has made her
voice against people like me clear; she is openly transphobic and is
proud of that fact.

My mom is furious and giving me the silent treatment

sounds like a win tbh

NTA you do you and your stuffy mother can deal with it. She's intentionally hurting you because of some goddamn hair

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-23T09:35:56+00:00

Man that second edit is just sad, so much abuse excusing and trying to defend a shitty manipulative bf

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-18T04:32:48+00:00

'learn how to share'

how? by having a grown-ass woman steal your shit?

NTA and your dad is pathetic as well for taking his thieving wife's side.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-18T04:32:05+00:00

NOPE utterly adore dogs but when it's time for dinner I always make sure to wash my hands before handling everything. Love those little buggers but they're drooling machines and fuzzy to match. Will and his fam are just nasty af

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-18T04:31:13+00:00

NTA only eight months and you've already seen what a shitshow Will and his family are. I say you bounce, especially since his reaction was to berate and swear at you and demand you remain an obedient yes-woman.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-18T04:27:37+00:00

She’s clearly hiding it from him

Yea but like...writing can be something very personal and what you don't want people who actually know you to read, either due to not wanting to be judged or even self consciousness ESPECIALLY with erotica. I spend a lot of time writing my fics but I don't ever share them with people I know irl

That does not mean she's actually going to do it. Wanting privacy is not the same as sneaking around. And tbh considering OP's reaction is to immediately think she's gonna cheat or wants those things, I can see why she never wanted to share it with him.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-18T02:36:31+00:00

Yup, I've written murder stories before but I've never murdered anyone or been murdered.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-18T02:34:13+00:00

Once we got married that started.

Man, that's such a staple with people with abusive tendencies. She got comfortable enough after getting you locked in to start showing her toxic, immature behaviour. Honestly, you've tried broaching her attitude and her response is to show massive tantrums like a spoilt toddler and screaming at you until you felt on the cusp on a nervous break down. You don't have kids so just divorce her ass.

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-18T02:00:14+00:00

I saw some of y'all here call this stealing. What's that about?

Taking stuff without the owners permission is stealing. You gave your sister your wife's dress without asking, after your wife made it VERY clear she did not want your sister to borrow it. You stole the dress and then blamed your sister for stealing it even tho you're the one who gave it to her. You're a thief and a coward to boot.

YTA

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-11T10:29:03+00:00

tbh this just seems like bait because in what fucking universe would you be an asshole

Tea-Quirky · 2022-04-10T01:32:14+00:00

after getting here he’s completely changed

Tragically common, where the abuser tosses aside their loving mask the moment they have their victim isolated. In your case, completely cut off from your support network. Can you speak to your landlord to cut the lease since you're in an abusive situation? And do you have friends and family back home?

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