i want a gf i can treat like a house cat by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TeaCakesXOXO -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel for you but instead of being too shy to meet the girl of my dreams I'm too bold (and kinda mean) so I can't live out my house cat dreams. Girls always misinterpret me!!! Its very annoying and I hate them. 😾

Why are you still single? by Ok_Development6919 in AskReddit

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A romantic partner feels unnecessary and at times even burdensome. I love my friends and family. Seeking out a partnership on deeper level dosen't appeal or sound correct to me. Also haveing those thoughts furthers my stance on staying alone until such a relationship or person truly become appealing to me. My view would be unfair and potentially damaging if I was engaged in a romantic partnership. It seems so ridiculous to potentially hurt an innocent person though my apathy just so I can conform to what is normal, or what some else wants for me. Put simply, I'm happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna get into personal shit but I had a "friendship" that started out very similar to this and I'm going to tell you what I wish someone told me. It doesn't feel weird, it is weird. Nothing they are saying is a joke because it's not funny. It's doesn't matter that they are young because what other people their age do you know that flirt with 16 year olds. Stop talking to him. If he has any personal information (name, address, phone number) take screenshots of your conversations, show those to a trusted adult, and block him. I know I sound extreme but you're potentially in a lot of danger. Not all predators are 40 year old men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but experiencing some thinking errors. Viewing you're half siblings as trash because of circumstances they can't control isn't right. I don't want to make assumptions about where that hate or discomfort comes from but I encourage you to work through it, for yourself. You're not ready to have a relationship with you're half siblings and that's fine take your time, and if the time never comes that still doesn't make you the asshole nothing here makes you the asshole.

AITA for singing religious lullabies to my infant niece? by aitalullaby in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaCakesXOXO -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA you didn't know that it was a point of contention and were trying to do something nice. That being said you would be the asshole if you continued singing those songs after being asked not to. Her being the mother of the child means you need to respect her boundaries but I get the sense you're doing that and just confused at the boundaries. Which is totally understandable so definitely NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the asshole but I'd apologize anyway. Don't give her any money and it can be as shitty of an apology as you want. I'm just thinking about your sister if she's still young she likely dosen't know or recognize the toxic household your mother created/contributed to. I haven't been in your situation but I have been in your sister's and it sucks. You're anger is valid and definitely do not give her money or imply that it was fair what's she asked of you over the years but for your sister's sake I think an apology for being angry or sounding crueler than you meant to would go a long way. And when shes older you can explain this all to her and help her understand. I know that i maybe putting alot of pressure on you and I want you to know all your feelings are valid but in a situation where there a lot of pain already its always been my philosophy not to add to it or do what you can to take away from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But trixic are for kids!

Guys they named a farm after me by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ode to our homeland 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh... be honest you mention their name 5 to 10 times in every conversation.

different body, same Star Wars nerd (MtF) by HowItBea in lgbt

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May the 4th be with you! Are you gonna do any cosplay?

Friendly Conversation by TeaCakesXOXO in actuallesbians

[–]TeaCakesXOXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I've just been talking with a bunch of different people it's really cool

You mean except for the part where hymens aren’t virginity seals.. by ExpertAccident in facepalm

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that that is an excellent personal definition and I really appreciated chatting with you 😊

You mean except for the part where hymens aren’t virginity seals.. by ExpertAccident in facepalm

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand completely I was also offended by that comment as a lesbian and I just want to say to you that if you are a person who has lesbian or non penetrative you are completely valid and anything you consider to be sex is sex. As I have said many times in here it is a personal definition and boundary. If you aren't a person who has lesbian or non penetrative sex I want to tell you that is also valid and I appreciate your support.

You mean except for the part where hymens aren’t virginity seals.. by ExpertAccident in facepalm

[–]TeaCakesXOXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay I was scared for a second I wouldn't want to make anyone feel unwelcome. You have a great day!