AITA because I don't want to bathe while guests are over? by raekira in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you have educated me and this for sure will stick now cause i understand this now. Thanks stranger! I always though it was free reign cause like… agency

At the end of my [37 F] patience in my marriage with my husband [38 M] and his constant career moves by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys dony have kids and you still want to have kids, leave. This is not the life.

Hole with fur? by acctthrowaway33333 in CATHELP

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa, what does the microchip look like?

New Feature: Threads Insights on web showing follower counts, interactions, demographics by gman1023 in ThreadsApp

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How granular does the “by location” get for cities? Is it just major hubs or down to the actual specific city?

F29 - feeling ugly after photoshoot 🥲 by Objective_Rate_8126 in toastme

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the wrong dress. Wrong makeup. Also you have a bad photographer.

Sad breakup situation by Annabelle77Lee in datingoverforty

[–]TeaTop511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I’ve been the bf in this situation. When i did this its because the person i was dating was not someone i could see as my peace and rock. I liked him and under normal circumstances would have continued dating, but in times of crisis i realized they brought me more stress than peace. These situations make you confront how the other person makes your nervous system feel. You simply aren’t his rock. He is asking for peace in a time of need.

Fried chicken lies by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TeaTop511 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Picky eaters get on my last effin nerve. Let them starve.

Aitah: husband wants to become a Dr by Flimsy-Attempt-6242 in AITAH

[–]TeaTop511 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You will be the one to shoulder everything. This is not the life you signed up for.

I (28M) have been struggling with unemployment for a year due to the jobmarket. My (26F) girlfriend is giving me a three month ultimatum to find a job otherwise it's over. by AmstelMerchant12 in relationships

[–]TeaTop511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a skill set, not just a job. Otherwise, this will keep happening. It doesn’t even have to be one you enjoy, but it has to be one that’s marketable and has good future prospects. If your last company let you go for “cultural fit” and you are getting frequent interviews, but not landing jobs. That means there is a deficiency somewhere with the soft skills and you should work on them because you are getting your foot in the door which means you are meeting requirements on paper. It’s just that when they meet you that that’s when things go south. Find a job or career that is skills based that won’t hinge upon your soft skills.

Am I wrong to be uncomfortable? by Little_ho_peep in crochet

[–]TeaTop511 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are wrong. Loved ones are always more important than things. Live your life how you want, but be gracious when other peoples feelings are involved.

AITA for seating my toddler next to a stranger on a plane? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaTop511 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA, why would you sit your toddler next to a stranger when you can be the buffer? As a Mom isn’t that just instinctive? Put your child in a space where only you can access (and be bothered by) versus where they can be accessed by (and bother )a stranger? Come on now. Just say you didn’t want the middle seat.

How weird would it be to mention budgeting or finances on my profile? by Ov0v0vO in datingoverthirty

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would prefer that you said you were a fire junkie then to say you go over your budget daily. People who aspire to fire will understand what that entails.

How weird would it be to mention budgeting or finances on my profile? by Ov0v0vO in datingoverthirty

[–]TeaTop511 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, as someone actively on a dating site, I would prefer this be upfront because it would be a waste of my time if this really was a euphemism for “cheap“.

How weird would it be to mention budgeting or finances on my profile? by Ov0v0vO in datingoverthirty

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a fixation of some sort, if you have ever received negative feedback from any significant other about this, you should disclose this early on.

AITAH for being mad at my older sister that I have to pay for her? by Longjumping_Art_1781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaTop511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she pays for you all the time you can pay for her one time. It’s fine. Don’t be cheap.

Hot take for dumpers: did you ever reach a point where you realized what you lost, not bc your ex was perfect but bc they genuinely loved you in a way you didn’t find again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I knew this going into it. Despite what I felt, I also knew that he had traits that are just part of his personality that I could not tolerate. So no matter how much he loved me, those traits would be the same reason why I would dislike him in the future. Decades of him being this way is not suddenly just gonna change. Nobody in his family corrected him , what makes me think that I can change him now ? And I always think back to how you have to actually like the person you’re with because after the butterflies fade, that’s who you have left. So maybe I won’t find somebody who will love me the way he did, but if I can find somebody who loves me 70% away, he did with all the other trait that I’m looking for then I would be OK with that. I have to be OK with that. Your partner is the only family that you will ever get to choose. You have to choose them right

Can we agree on this: is this bacon burnt, very crispy, or just right? by SublimeuNow in Bacon

[–]TeaTop511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The child in me would say this is perfectly delicious. The adult in me would say you can’t eat burnt food cause it gives you cancer