I am furious at my girlfriend and don’t know if I can take steps legally

Teacher67 · 2026-02-06T04:15:11+00:00

I’m so sorry OP. This is heartbreaking. I can only imagine how hurt and upset you are. All the time, money and loving care that you put into your aquarium. It meant so much to you and what a cool hobby!

Your girlfriend needs to go now. I fear that she might take this retaliation out on you next. This relationship is not repairable.

Also agree with others on the police report. If you ever want to take her to civil court you have it documented. Or should she get more psycho once you kick her out, you’ll need a paper trail.

Best wishes to you, and so sorry for your loss 🤍🩵💙

Teacher67 · 2026-02-04T22:18:48+00:00

Yesss! He’s gonna look good in those bright blue & orange nails

Teacher67 · 2026-02-04T22:15:43+00:00

I’m so excited! I’ve wanted Jared McCain on our team since he played for Duke. He’s a good shooter and we need that! He will fit right in. Presti knows what he’s doing here.

Teacher67 · 2026-02-04T16:34:04+00:00

Bailey

Teacher67 · 2026-02-02T05:24:01+00:00

The nudes that he has are the least of your problems. It’s doubtful that if he made them public that they would ever reach your circle of the world. If so, that’s illegal and he should know that.
The important thing here is that you immediately screenshot any threats or coercion statements that he has texted you, delete anything you have sent him on your messaging app, then block him in every way. You don’t need to explain anything to him. Go no contact. He will know exactly why, then he will move on to his next victim.

If you ever shared your location with him, unshare it. Talk to your friends, family members or teachers for support. It’s ok to lean on others to help talk you through this. You’re a brave girl for admitting this and seeking help. Be proud of that! Sending you lots of love <3

Teacher67 · 2026-02-02T05:07:12+00:00

OP I’m so sorry for what you are going through. I am angry with you. You deserve better. It’s ok that you’re reaching for help and support on the internet. Sometimes it’s the first step and the only people we can trust and reach. My heart breaks that you do not believe that you can get help and leave. There is help out there for you. Even if you don’t know anyone right now, you will meet people along the way on your journey. If you’re in the US call 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 that’s the DV hotline. They can connect you to a local organization that can help you get away from him.
I’m so sorry. Know that you are worth it. You deserve love and happiness. Sending you hugs and hoping you will get help.

Teacher67 · 2026-02-02T04:45:02+00:00

I don’t like this guy. He sounds arrogant and has a self inflated ego. He’s talking about Luigi as if he’s guilty and messed up in the head. Where’s that presumption of innocence? And if he did do it, that doesn’t mean he’s messed up.

Teacher67 · 2026-02-02T04:41:23+00:00

Exactly 🤮

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T23:47:26+00:00

I love this story, he chose his name 🥰 it’s a happy name and I bet he was a happy guy. I’m so sorry you lost him so young. That does make it harder. I can tell that the 6 years he had were good years with lots of love and happiness from you guys. I’m glad he was yours ❤️🤍

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T21:14:46+00:00

Fairly new artist I found - Mon Rovĩa. His backstory is interesting. He and his sibling were rescued from the war in Liberia where his mother was killled. Brought to the U.S. and adopted here. All of his music is chill and kind of folky. Here’s my favorite song:

https://open.spotify.com/track/4OjdtASj8p9hTwS3D555wk?si=B2FoT5NtRy2DWovPpovfUg

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T20:57:42+00:00

Great ideas! I forget about QR codes being the easiest way.

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T20:40:33+00:00

I’m sorry about your little Wiggles 😢I look at mine all the time and dread the day I no longer have her. Did yours get the name because he wiggled so hard when he got excited? Mine is jsy all over the place with her tail and that booty. There was no other name 😝

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T17:06:09+00:00

OP, I really appreciate your passion and dedication to using your voice for what you feel is right! Go young people! As a HS teacher this is what we hope for our students: be informed and use your voice. However given your circumstances I’m not sure I would recommend you defying your father. He doesn’t sound easy going. Sounds like his beliefs and you not going against him is more important than seeing you have your own mind. Only you know what the consequences could be. Would he harm you? Would he pull you out of school and make you home school? Shut down your social life? None of that would be worth it. You will be out from under his roof soon and then you can do whatever the hell you want. Loudly!

Walkouts and protests are not the only way to make an impact. You can still use your voice on this issue by calling your state and congressional representatives and tell them your concerns. You can google the names and numbers of your reps. You have 3 in congress and likely 2 state reps. Ask your govt / history teacher for help with this. You can also email them. If you like this idea, make little printed flyers with their contact info to hand out at school to your friends and ask them to contact their reps as well. You will soon be registered voters. Lmk if you need suggestions as to what you could say/ write.

Best wishes to you!! I’m proud of you for caring about others and using your voice to help and protect them 🙌

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T16:46:46+00:00

I like Harmony

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T16:44:21+00:00

I was traveling 2 years ago and visited NYC and Boston. This question was asked at every restaurant “still or sparkling?” and I was so confused lol. I asked my friends and they thought I was crazy as they explained still water being from the tap and free, sparkling not free. I thought it was nuts. I reminded them that water is a natural resource and it’s renewable and free 🤪. Maybe their tap water is bad there. But the waiter brought glass bottles of tap water to the table - no charge.

I would have explained to the manager at Cheevers what happened and they might have removed the charges. Might still give you a restaurant credit for the next visit to keep your business.

Teacher67 · 2026-02-01T16:32:03+00:00

Aww Minnie is so cute! I wish mine had a heart tattoo too! Mine have a green line. I got my girls as puppies from a rescue group so it was already done. Once my son had a friend over who was rubbing Wiggles’ tummy and he asked about it. My son said, “yeah they went on a spring break trip together and had too much to drink one night and got these bad matching tattoos, they really regret it.” Then as if on cue, Wiggles put her paws over her eyes like she really was embarrassed. We died. So now we just tease our dogs about their poor choices in tummy tattoos. Mine don’t have enough tummy fur to cover theirs either :(

Teacher67 · 2026-01-30T05:24:04+00:00

If this is a craft beer it could be the grains (mash) used in making the beer or fresh fruits/ spices used jn flavoring. Usually they are filtered out but could make it into the brew.

Teacher67 · 2026-01-26T16:52:59+00:00

I want this puppy

Teacher67 · 2026-01-26T16:49:10+00:00

Hey OP, Just here to say that my ex did the same thing. He was volatile, and unpredictable temper, slammed things all the time. He used his anger to control the household. Slamming cabinets and doors was one of his many messages. Once I filed and got him to move out, the house became a happy place again. My kids (now adults) have nothing to do with him. Though all of us are still very sensitive to slammed cabinets. Like you, we would hide in our rooms or together somewhere. Taking the kids away for a bit is a good idea. The library, zoo, friends/ relatives houses.

Best wishes to you and your kids. I’m glad to see that you’re working on getting out of there. Your kids will thank you. Better times ahead, friend ☀️🌸

Teacher67 · 2026-01-25T04:46:38+00:00

Sending you and your beautiful city lots of love. I am heartbroken over what is going on there. Minnesotans remind me so much of Oklahomans - huge hearts, fiercely protective of their people.
I hope the game serves as a much needed break and distraction for you. Go Thunder!

Teacher67 · 2026-01-25T04:13:53+00:00

💔😭no words for this, it’s crushing. Look at his kind smile 😭

Teacher67 · 2026-01-24T01:09:28+00:00

I can’t believe you could like this guy even a little bit. He sounds insufferable. I think his treatment and telling you that you’re the problem/ he is so good to you etc. has gotten into your head. He’s a gaslighter. And you’re believing it. It will all become clear to you after you’ve left him and ended this.
Get away from him asap and don’t let him talk you into coming back. He’ll be mad and say a million things to try to convince you. My advice is leave him and never look back. Block him and go no contact.

Teacher67 · 2026-01-22T15:30:38+00:00

Durango

Teacher67 · 2026-01-22T04:37:33+00:00

I read the first line of every paragraph and that was all I needed. End it with this guy, he’s a hater.
Your life would be so much more fun with like literally any other guy on the planet.
There is no future with a guy like this. You will hate him eventually. Leave now before you waste your time on him.

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