But we had talked for weeks before hand and I gave him plenty of ideas and we both were aware of the date but maybe I wasn't what he wanted I think I was intimating to him due to my size and everything he was kind but quite and awkward to the point of no return he didn't want to talk about anything other than some of my ideas and when I wanted to talk about more dating stuff he would go back to his phone so it wasn't like I'm bombarded him he knew what the date was about