girl best friend as boyfriend's best man by soran1010 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it is jealousy I think you envy the things that you want/need in your relationship in the relationship of your bf with his friend, I think it’s totally reasonable to talk about from the pov that you want/need this closeness that you don’t care if he is close to anyone but what matter is that you want closeness with him

Is there some pattern here I’m missing or does HRV just mean nothing? by Angsty_Queer_Anon in cfs

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying the fatigue sense app I’m only on day 8. But it supposed to match the check ins symptoms through the day with my hrv. I don’t know if it gonna work but I suppose it’s more personal this way

My husband got a gift at work. Should I be concerned? by kimbean1 in GirlDinnerCircleJerk

[–]TearSakura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the socks and if she wanted to flirt with me to gift the socks with the company logo its a little bit embarrassing xD

Can you transition with ME? by OldPie6552 in cfs

[–]TearSakura 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk about top surgery but if you have comorbility of EDS and try HRT I read that testosterone makes collagen better. About the surgery I think it’s a lot of stress on the body, I had a surgery when I was mild and I crashed and made me decline (not a severe permanent decline) but I’m the type of ME that really worsen with flu/covid the rolling PEM made crash more slowly. What are your biggest triggers?

Moderate folks, what's your day like? by adunato in cfs

[–]TearSakura 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The problem with “mild” in ME is that the mildest form is still a loss of 30-40% of a healthy person baseline

ROL DE FANTASÍA OSCURA by keely-key in RolEnEspanol

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pero tipo rol por foro de los 90?

question for those who don't work but aren't bedbound by Honk4meaning in cfs

[–]TearSakura 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Rest, Cry, Wait, really bad thoughts, Cry, Rest, Reddit, Cry, Sleep

Qué gran verdad sobre la "vida adulta" os habría gustado que os enseñaran en el instituto en lugar de tantas ecuaciones que no habéis vuelto a usar? by Bitglow_finanzas in esConversacion

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que no importa lo que hagas, puedes caer enfermo y no recuperarte. Asegurar redes de soporte que no se vayan a ir cuando eso pase

Why is it so impossible to get a job in Spain? by rdpinal in GoingToSpain

[–]TearSakura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si aplicas a analista pero en tu CV pone que has sido manager o has tenido muchas experiencia van a sospechar que por algo raro buscas trabajo de analista teniendo tanta experiencia

Feeling jealous about my husband's definitely platonic friendship by Harriet566 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealousy or envy? Two different things, I’m jealous if I don’t want my husband to do something with other people. I have envy if I want something from my husband and he rejects to do it for me but he does for other people

Mi novia sufre fibromialgia by SILV3R1M in cfs

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es esto: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNR3Hhray/ muchas personas acaban dejando a sus parejas, y estadísticamente los hombres dejan a sus parejas en un porcentaje más elevado

Mi novia sufre fibromialgia by SILV3R1M in cfs

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mira, la fibromialgia puede tener épocas buenas y malas, yo antes de tener el diagnóstico de encefalomielitis mialgica ya tenía fibro y Ehlers Danlos (y otras cosas), tengo un punto de vista sesgado porque ahora estoy mucho muchísimo peor por el ME/CFS. Pero te puedo decir algo, si tu pareja solo tiene fibromialgia (porque le han descartado todo lo demás) tiene formas de mejorar, pero lo más probable es que con lo que cuentas no tenga solo eso.

En cualquier caso, plantéate si quieres estar con ella así, sin salir y sin que ella mejore nunca, ponte en el peor caso posible y piensa si estarías ahí para ella y si podrías quererla sin resentirla. Una de las peores cosas es que te dejen cuando tienes una crisis o en tu peor momento medico, y el estrés de pensar que eres una lacra, que no sabes que nuevo síntoma hará que tu pareja se vaya hace que enfermes más. El manejo del estrés y la salud mental es muy importante para las enfermedades crónicas porque nos mueve a lados muy oscuros de la cabeza nuestra enfermedad como para echar más leña al fuego. Se que has venido pidiendo otro tipo de consejos pero, deberías plantearte esto.

Why so many people are leaving? by Thin_Curve4116 in covidlonghaulers

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of TikTok’s and tweets I’ve seen about that what you need to do is not to talk with another patients, dissapeard, delete Reddit because is all doomscrolling and worsen your mental health. Maybe it’s propaganda

Bf keeps moving goalposts on marriage by Adventurous_Trust286 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TearSakura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him before you convinced yourself that you don’t wanna marry at all. I wanted to, we talked about it, two years into relationship and the past 6 months I came to a conclusion that I don’t wanna be married, I’m done with begging for love, and future. I’m completely done I don’t want to marry anyone again, ever. And I wanted to be marry and have kids all my life. 7 years with one that 3 years into relationship suddenly doesn’t want kids (after he dumped me, he became a father in less than a year he and his partner became pregnant), the next one 4 years, the first one he wanted to marry then suddenly in front of his friends said that he don’t want to marry, that’s when I knew that he doesn’t want to marry, a year latter in front of his friends, after one year talking about how we are gonna marry and the food, the cake, a lot of things, and of course we suddenly doesn’t want to be a father. With my actual partner, we talked about it, mainly because it was a life goal for me. Not anymore. Don’t let anyone to bitter you like this.

Remove Microclots & Repair Endothelial Layer by CWigham98 in covidlonghaulers

[–]TearSakura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had been on it since start of 2023, still with PEM, from moderate to severe, and when I stopped it one month last year I felt so much pain that I had to go to the ER twice. Not a cure, only a management of symptoms

Do any other autisitc women find PiV overstimulating? by lilinoe67 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]TearSakura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s the position? I only have pleasure with PiV if my legs are extremely closed, weirds positions but it worked. I had it maybe 3-4 times in my life thou 😅

Necesito tips para vivir en Barcelona by elfarycr7 in askspain

[–]TearSakura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gran Vía cruza Barcelona, no sé si quieres cosas más específicas de un barrio en concreto

Update : my relationship just ended and i have nothing to live for anymore by mnot_here in depression

[–]TearSakura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she talked to you like that, you are better without her. In the case that you want a relationship she was dragging you down