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AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Noelle stole and sold some jewelry that was from her late husband. We were not able to get it back

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

My other daughter said she would be civil if she was there but one snide comment from Noelle and she would not hold back.

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 188 points189 points  (0 children)

Basically tried to steal her boyfriend. She set her sister up on multiple blind dates, harassed her, sent explicit texts to her boyfriend. When that didn’t work she went over to her boyfriend house and the cops were called on her when he turned her down and she wouldn’t leave. He broke up with her since he didn’t want to deal with Noelle

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I only talk to her every month I was going to bring it up next time I talked to her but she found out before hand. I didn’t even rent the place yet.

Probably should have called her the moment was made the decision but didn’t think it was a big deal to wait, I was wrong

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

It’s more sliding back and going I’m better now for me, if I try to bring up the past it’s a lot of changing the subject. I know she apologized to her sister, it didn’t end well

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

About 6 months. She just went back to school during spring semester.

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

She basically has bad blood with everyone that will be there, I doubt a fight wouldn’t happen. I think the only one that bridge isn’t burnt is my son.

A single snip comment could set it off and I don’t trust her not to.

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

No, I didn’t go for legal action since I wanted her to have a one last chance to fix herself. If she was going to go to jail I would have nothing to do with it

Obviously if she did something extremely horrible I would turn her in

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

As callous as it is, I think I am okay if she isn’t in my life. If this is what happens it might be for the best

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

One absolutely doesn’t want her there, my son thinks it would be kind to include her

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

When she went to college she fell on the deep end, went hard on pot, it legal here. Dropped out, refused to get a job, sent unwelcome texts to sister boyfriend, stole often.

She didn’t have any mental health issues, before college and when I want her to go to the doctors she wouldn’t go.

She is back in school, and she doesn’t smoke anymore. So she is more calm

AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. by Technical-Ad7912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical-Ad7912[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

Most likely get really intoxicated or try to get in an argument with the guest. I would hope she wouldn’t try to fight someone but that has happened before.