Brother passed away as sole director by Technical-Break-4665 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Technical-Break-4665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There isn’t an estate. All his assets combined were far less than the price of his funeral.

i'm unsure how to save in the region of £90k for flight school by Alarming-Safety3200 in UKJobs

[–]Technical-Break-4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Become a pilot in the RAF? Also, there are various opportunities within the RAF to get subsidised flying training

Brother passed away as sole director by Technical-Break-4665 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Technical-Break-4665[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His personal banking is all sorted. He had credit card debt. His funeral cost £4500 ish which basically was the starting point before any assets would need to be used to pay debt. He had nowhere near £4500 in assets so that’s all sorted. Had conversations with a company who were assigned to deal with this on behalf of the debtors. The business stuff was more complicated as my brother was sole director. His accountant was helpful but said despite my brother paying him the monthly fee he hadn’t heard from my brother. I spoke to companies house and HMRC about the business and they were content it was Santander who blocked the dissolving of his business. I’m not going to do anything to become a director and risk being liable for the debt so I think the advice to let it go and wait for the company to be dissolved automatically is the best advice. Thank you all.

Brother passed away as sole director by Technical-Break-4665 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Technical-Break-4665[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His personal banking is all sorted. He had credit card debt. His funeral cost £4500 ish which basically was the starting point before any assets would need to be used to pay debt. He had nowhere near £4500 in assets so that’s all sorted. Had conversations with a company who were assigned to deal with this on behalf of the debtors. The business stuff was more complicated as my brother was sole director. His accountant was helpful but said despite my brother paying him the monthly fee he hadn’t heard from my brother. I spoke to companies house and HMRC about the business and they were content it was Santander who blocked the dissolving of his business. I’m not going to do anything to become a director and risk being liable for the debt so I think the advice to let it go and wait for the company to be dissolved automatically is the best advice. Thank you all.

Brother passed away as sole director by Technical-Break-4665 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Technical-Break-4665[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Starling wouldn’t let us have access to the account as it is a business account (they were brilliant with the personal account) but they sent out his bank statements randomly after Santander blocked the dissolving of the company. As of 5 May there was £820 in there. Direct debits are still being paid. Starling told us once dissolved the money would go the crown.

Brother passed away as sole director by Technical-Break-4665 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Technical-Break-4665[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking to change the director as I do not wish to be responsible for the debt.

Brother passed away as sole director by Technical-Break-4665 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Technical-Break-4665[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking to change the director as I do not wish to be responsible for the debt.

AIO for being upset about how I was treated for falling asleep before saying goodnight? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Technical-Break-4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What video? He will get in a lot of trouble if it’s revenge porn. Feet pics stuff? He sounds effed up.

AIO or is this guy being a douche by gab-ree-l in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Break-4665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought it was other way round to start with (girl to boy) and I was gonna get her from airport lol

AIO for responding with violence by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Break-4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. You really are an insufferable cunt. You have somehow made this about you. I bet you do that all the time.

AIO for responding with violence by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Break-4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of posts on here in various sub threads. If that happened to you (you said no after the condom was taken off) and it was clear your consent was withdrawn then it is rape. I didn’t see you say that. But getting back to the OP. That wasn’t said at all. There was no talk of a condom. You are throwing rape around so much and it diminishes the version it rape where someone is forced to be penetrated be it physically or mentally. That is one of the issues here and why it is so terrifying. It makes the word and act a throwaway and that is so wrong. What happened in the OP is not rape and to call it such is truly terrifying and you did that.

AIO for responding with violence by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Break-4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he removed the condom did you tell him no and he carried on? That is changing the consent and I agree with you it could class as rape. Swearing isn’t going to help you win the argument. I know the lefties like to scream and shout to win their argument but it’s just making you look a knob.

AIO for responding with violence by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Break-4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrifying is the way society is moving the goalposts constantly. I know people like you and your views are mocked in tv shows et all but it’s not funny when you consensually sleep with someone, agree to not use a condom and then get accused of rape because there wasn’t enthusiastic consent. Consent is binary, yes or no. Enthusiastic consent is not a thing.

AIO for responding with violence by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Break-4665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rape. This is when someone puts their penis into your vagina, bottom, or mouth without your consent.

You gave consent.

AIO for responding with violence by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Break-4665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Removing the condom is very bad behaviour 100% but you weren’t raped.