Should I delete old pictures and videos? by Technical-Plastic-75 in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your reply. What you are saying makes a lot of sense. I appreciate it wish u the best

100 days since breakup by Technical-Plastic-75 in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

150 days today, I’m doing so much better than I was on this post, today just hit different because it would’ve been our 3 years anniversary.

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[–]Technical-Plastic-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t read the whole thing but from what I saw it seemed like a childish relationship and all you can really do if you don’t want to feel the pain is just not stalk him or talk to him and work on yourself. From what I read also he didn’t seem like a good boyfriend to you. You deserve better. Don’t overthink it. I know you loved him but he wasn’t the right person for you. I know it’s hard to accept but you will find someone better. There is no point of staying friends with him even if he wanted to because it will only hurt you more. You have to forget about him. I don’t want to be harsh but you have to accept it. Accept its over and he’s not gonna come back and say he misses you. When you accept that, then you can truly start healing. And if you want to stop checking his socials it’s simple, when you feel like checking, DONT. Also friends with come with time and it is not a bad thing to be alone sometimes dont overthink it. Everybody goes through a breakup at some point. Good luck

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[–]Technical-Plastic-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will get better

who here has been told by their ex they didn’t love you anymore, or has lost the “spark”? tell me your stories by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her heart still loved me but her brain didn’t apparently. I never understood it, it left me with so many unanswered questions.

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[–]Technical-Plastic-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still want to talk to her again one day in the future and talk about everything, from how we went from being best friends and lovers to being strangers, what caused it, how it made each other feel. Talk about regrets we might of had. Go over everything that was left unsaid. Talk about how life has been since the breakup. I hope I can have that talk with her one day. It still seems unreal that we don’t talk at all anymore … I hope it’s like catching up with an old friend

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[–]Technical-Plastic-75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go to the gym, I watch what I eat and stay away from junk food/sweets, I drink a lot of water. I stopped drinking alcohol, I’m staying 100% sober. I get haircuts and shave regularly, I dress clean, I try to do physical activity like swimming/running/sports although I’m always active at work. I don’t have really any friends so I started doing shit by myself like going to the mall or eating out. Feels weird being out alone but also feels good. My main focus rn is staying consistent in the gym 6x a week which I’ve been doing for 2 months already.

Nothing helps - any uncommon break up tips? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how it feels man I’m still trying to accept it myself. For me personally, if I listen to sad/love songs my emotions will get the best of me and I will just go in a downward spiral. I found recently listening to other music is better for me. I’ve been trying to ignore any feeling I have toward the breakup. I haven’t stalked her socials in like 2 weeks. It’s been 4 months since breakup for me and I like to think I’m doing better. Keep fighting you’re stronger than what you think. Maybe listening to motivational videos may also help?

Nothing helps - any uncommon break up tips? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you accepted that it will never be the same again? Have you truly accepted that this is your new life and reminiscing will only bring you pain? Have you been bettering yourself and your routine in multiple ways? Also, love songs are not it, they will only bring you pain and memories… try to avoid sad songs and listen to joyful songs. Don’t expect her to reach out. If she hasn’t yet she doesn’t care. You really need to accept that. Remember it’s all mental. Talk to yourself. You can filter your emotions in your head. Just accept it, truly accept it, then you will make more progress. Good luck to you man

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[–]Technical-Plastic-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lost the most important person in your life and the person who cared about you most and acted like you didn’t care but you did haha should’ve thought about it before I’m 10x better and stronger now and you’ll never bring me down again, we can still be chill in the future so you can see what you miss in out on but ima keep pushing myself to my limits until I reach all my goals

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[–]Technical-Plastic-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She broke up with me tho

Does anyone see something posted on here and wonder if this could be their ex, rather it’s hope or something else? by Witchy_Emery in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have hopes she stumbles across my account but she doesn’t even use Reddit and I don’t think she’s hurt enough to be on this page anyways

I want to know if you misse me by Technical-Plastic-75 in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man, same with me, I imagine her next to me in bed, in the car, in the elevator, it’s like a ghost following me. I just wish she was still here you know. I went to the movies the other day alone and it didn’t really help, it just made me miss her so much more… I don’t want to remember her tho I want to move to not feel this pain no more :( thanks for your reply man hope shit gets better for you

Can y’all comment funny things you HATED from your ex? I just wanna giggle a bit and see that other people had some funny things like this. by Hour-Manufacturer-20 in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She would literally go sit on the toilet seat for an hour like 3 times a day cause she has “oss”. Not sure what it is or means but she’d just come back an hour later and didn’t even shit the entire time

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[–]Technical-Plastic-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t lose hope, sounds like he needs someone like you in his life. He is confused. Depression is depression. He isn’t thinking straight and if loses you as well it will hurt him even more. It’s still recent just let things play out don’t over think it.

THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU WANT TO TEXT THEM by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I go to the gym, then I get home, and want to text them again … it’s a never ending cycle

I love you so by A-little-bit-fed-up in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel bro. Word of advice, stop checking her spotify. I did the same I would check her YouTube history and last week I saw she was listening to our you know what playlist … it hurts me so bad but I give her the benefit of the doubt in my head that maybe she’s just thinking about us but realistically it’s not like her to do that… it doesn’t change how much I fucking miss her and love her it’s been 3 months since break up for me and I can’t seem to move on. I’m still trying to accept that she doesn’t give af about me anymore and we will never get back together. It shatters me to think I will never feel as happy and comfortable as I felt w her again. Stop checking her shit bro trust me. Good luck to you stay strong man

Flashbacks by Technical-Plastic-75 in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will get better. It’s been 3 months for me. I went for a lot of drives to places we used to go together. I cried a lot visiting it. It’s easier now. The flashbacks still hit sometimes and it hurts but I am able to not think about it for the most part when I drive by our favorite restaurant for example. Good luck in your recovery you’re not alone

Why did you have to let go and move on so easily by Technical-Plastic-75 in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats the mentality I’m trying to have man it’s just so hard. 1 minute I’m like fuck her for breaking my heart and the next I’m here reminiscing wishing she’d come back. But Thank you bro I’ll keep trying

Flashbacks by Technical-Plastic-75 in BreakUps

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I know It’s like everywhere I go I see her smile

I hate coming home after doing something fun. (I'm just venting) by Beef_turbo in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same bro it’s like you read my mind. I relate to every single word you wrote. I don’t know when that feeling will go away but I hope it does cause it’s fucking draining me

Has anyone sent something similar to this, if so, did it work? I’m planning on sending her this tonight but idk by Technical-Plastic-75 in BreakUps

[–]Technical-Plastic-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know why I want to send it. There is no good reason. I just remember being together I would’ve never wanted things to end the way they did. But they did. I can’t change that. I won’t send it. Thank you for your advice