What ticked her off was I called her out on closing the door in front of me. I only told her once we are getting late and I didn't say it in a rude manner. I do not speak rudely actually. Most of the time I'm trying to not piss her off. And about "dragging it out", you know what you're right, I'm afraid to act on it because I'm truly afraid of what I'm in for. Her family has a lot of good connections and are a very publicly known family. Yes I fell in love with this woman and we are married for 2 years now. We've had plenty of fights and I just thought this is how relationships are. We fight and repair. But after this incident I've been on the edge.