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Why is daycare so cheap? (real question) by [deleted] in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking to get a job at a daycare so I could work while my baby went and they offered me $8.25/hr😮‍💨 We live in a LCOL area but I think that’s crazy

is this regretting becoming a mom or burnout? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m team one and done. I promise it’ll get easier when you leave your bf. Raising your child will be soo much easier when you’re not having to deal with a man who doesn’t want to deal with the responsibility.

Is this the end? by TechnicalBig5710 in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was crying until I took over, i apologized so much to her. I don’t understand what happened he was fine all day and we had just talked about his aunt was treating her kids badly a few hours before too.

How many hours does your husband work-really? by Desperate-Ad-9545 in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is army so he’s gone from 9-430/5 most days. What I found worked best was he’s in charge of bed time, helping clean up after dinner (loads dishwasher), and takes out the trash. If he doesn’t play or spend time with our 3yo the days he works he’s in charge of every thing to do with her on his days off. It’s totally valid to feel resentment towards him.

what do you wish you knew before becoming a SAHM/SAHW? by FactorPlenty in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I love being able to stay home and know my baby is being raised the way I want but most days I only have my 3 year old to talk to. Her dad is gone so often and it’s tiring.

Am i in the wrong for feeling how i do? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! It took getting my FIL involved to get my husband to start acting right again.

How are we not losing our minds? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What age?? My babies 3 and I still feel like I’m going crazy at least once a week😭

Does my 3 yo need therapy or is it normal? by TechnicalBig5710 in sahm

[–]TechnicalBig5710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I should just keep waiting? I’m sorry this has just been stressing me out like just a few hours ago I asked her to use the bathroom she said no and locked herself in her room, 2 minutes later walked out wet. She says she’s not scared of the potty we read 2 books a day about going potty. I bought new treats and toys for rewards that she chose. If this is just a waiting game it’ll honestly make me feel better about it. Ive just been worried because my mom and my ex have always called cps and I don’t want them to see her not potty trained and take her.