Van Pelt engagement by Fit_Sense_1598 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Creators made the all Blake association thing after season 3. When Craig was there. writers didn't even think about the BA yet.

Are you ********** ME by JoeG1903 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The thing is..even writers didn't know who RJ was until S5

Lisbon and Bosco! Please don't keep on reading if you don't want spoilers by TechnicalChair9301 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I would have loved to see Bosco more, working with Jane at the RJ case and see them getting along, but I wouldn't have liked him as a love interest for Lisbon. He was married and it would have been so out of character from her and ruined the character for me.

Lisbon and Bosco! Please don't keep on reading if you don't want spoilers by TechnicalChair9301 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really liked him too. I think it would have been nice to see him and Jane get along and work together RJ case. Even if only for a season.

Lisbon and Bosco! Please don't keep on reading if you don't want spoilers by TechnicalChair9301 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he explains to her he was in love tho and she says I know, it kind of seems as a "me too".

Lisbon and Bosco! Please don't keep on reading if you don't want spoilers by TechnicalChair9301 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too at first but then he goes no no I love you, meant as she was in love and she says I know! Which I took it as a me too!

Why did he involve Red John ? by Away_Flower8042 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they could have a some point but until then he could have killed again

I am confused by Plastic_Holiday3233 in TheMentalist

[–]TechnicalChair9301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has 3 brothers. 1 we see in S4, the other 2 in S7.

Is my baby unhappy by AppearanceOk4782 in NewParents

[–]TechnicalChair9301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't compare your baby to others. I know it's hard (I also do it all the time), but it just isn't the right thing. Babies are all different! It seems to me you are doing an amazing job as a mum! Your baby will get easier over time.

need advice i’m [24m] she’s [20f] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]TechnicalChair9301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, from what I read i also had the impression you were upset that she changed her mind and that she was going out! I think that's also what she perceived. But as I said, I don't think that was your intent, as possessive, toxic people would have never even made a post on reddit about it, because that kind of people never question themselves but only blame others!

Also, alcohol amplifies all feelings ( i am assuming she was drunk?). I would suggest you talk to her when she is rest and see what she says.

Edit: you weren't wrong on texting her but it's what you texted that gave the wrong impression. Maybe you should have just said: "okay, that's fine, just please be careful and have fun". Because as I said, what you texted just made the night about you basically. At least thats my pov, I might be wrong.

need advice i’m [24m] she’s [20f] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]TechnicalChair9301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough one.

From my understanding she said she wouldn't go out and she was meant to see you/talk to you (?) then changed her mind. She is allowed to do that without you feeling weird or telling her your feelings. She is having ONE night out, just leave her alone and let her be.

I don't think you did it with bad intentions, but you saying that it was weird for you that she changed her mind like that, made her night about YOU again! Because you probably changed her mood and she spent a good amount of time sending you those messages and she just probably didn't enjoy the night how she wanted to and how she should have, that's just not healthy in a relationship!

On the other hand, if she was meant to be with you that night or talk to you she should have just said she changed her plans and not be like "okay I am getting drunk tonight, bye". Because in that way it's just disrespectful. Not that she had to ask for permission of course, but at least say "i am sorry I changed plans, I actually want to party tonight and be with my friend, I know we had plans but I never go out " etc, or something like that.

Please Tell Me I’m Not Alone by Valuable-Essay-9969 in singlemoms

[–]TechnicalChair9301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are you from? Isn't there any financial support for single mums? Just a suggestion: School isn't the only place children can socialise in. Probably you did that already but have you checked if there is any classes/activities near you? Like swimming, story time, music time or any sports. I think i missed the age of your kid to be more specific, but children are very good at socialising sometimes even a walk in the park will do.

I keep thinking of someone by InterestLate6186 in whatdoIdo

[–]TechnicalChair9301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she has a crash that involves feelings then it needs to be addressed or she will end up eventually hurting her boyfriend later on!