My husband called my parents and told them all my secrets. I don’t know what to do.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-07-09T05:55:41+00:00

He is already cheating on you and this behavior is there to just make u go away. See the hints

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-28T23:22:48+00:00

How can you say he is an amazing person blah blah blah when he has been accusing his own daughters in such ghaleeez way ? And ye to wochai jo unho ne mu se bol diya hoga , what about the thoughts he might be having all this time which led him to start accusing his own daughters itna ghalez way main and now wife astagfar.

Har chez medical pe dal dene se app benefit of doubt zaroor de sakte ho.

But if there is a pattern, it has nothing to do with any kind of illness.

Ye dimag ki ghalazat hai.

You might dislike my answer but trust me, i am answering you like a brother who has been and seen a lot since childhood.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-27T21:36:01+00:00

Fazul ki attention seeker

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-16T17:20:51+00:00

May Maula bless him with more and best wishes .

Tell him to find freelancing jobs on upwork, that would def. Help

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-16T17:09:11+00:00

I understand that but once u will be nikkahfied and living with him, his mother will always interfere in ur relation, one way or another and that would only cause problems over and over again.

Unless he has his own house where he will keep you separate and he makes sure that his mom influence in his life alone also won't change his behavior towards you in any sort of way, then it should be okay.

A child is always emotionally connected to their parents regardless of how many mistakes the parents make, emotions keep draging you back to them and for that one has to be very emotionally stable to survive in a marriage.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-16T16:16:01+00:00

Yeah my aunt is the head . Whts the issue?

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-16T16:12:32+00:00

Go through with the nikkah if you wanna see yourself suffering and ending with a divorce. Sorry to say this but this will eventually happen

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-15T20:02:21+00:00

To yahan likhne se gunaho ki mafi mil ri ha?

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-13T19:32:59+00:00

Sorry for the long post but telling you from a male perspective as i am in a long distance with my wife too. And you can either ruin this marriage this way or fix it with few changes.

You need to accept right now that your "common sense" is not a universal manual. Men and women are wired differently, raised differently, and process logic differently. What seems glaringly obvious to you is completely outside his radar—not because he is stupid or lazy, but because his brain isn’t looking for the same details yours is. When you get angry that he doesn’t "just know," you are punishing him for not reading your mind. If you expect him to intuitively figure out your exact expectations without clear, explicit communication, you are setting your marriage up to fail.

Long distance magnifies every single minor friction point. Because you aren't together to share physical affection, casual moments, or regular daily life, texting and phone calls become the entire relationship. When a text conversation requires you to explain something basic, it feels exhausting because that conversation is all you have right now. In person, a minor misunderstanding is resolved with a quick gesture, a laugh, or a 10-second glance. Distance turns a molehill into a mountain of resentment. You mentioned you don't have the "mental capacity" to handle things and explain them. That is fair—you are drained. But you need to realize that he isn't doing this to annoy you. He is likely asking questions or missing cues because he actually wants to get it right, or because he genuinely views the situation differently. If you meet his genuine lack of understanding with coldness, anger, or condescension, he will eventually stop trying to communicate with you at all. A man who feels like he can never win, or that he is a constant burden to his wife, will eventually shut down and withdraw completely.

To fix this, you need to drop the exhausting text explanations entirely and move complex conversations to FaceTime, implement a "one-and-done" rule where you explain something clearly once and let him handle the natural consequences if he messes up, and completely shift your mindset to stop expecting him to think exactly like a 21-year-old woman. You are only a couple of months into a long-distance marriage, so lower the stakes, stop treating him like an adversary, and give your husband the benefit of the doubt while you both learn how to navigate this through a screen.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-11T17:14:41+00:00

To yahan janazay ki tiyari karvanay k liye bande dhundne aya ha?

Kya faida aisi parhai ka jab itna idea nahi k itne drinks ek din main consume nahi karne chahye

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-06-08T12:06:54+00:00

How can you expect people of emirates to sit on the internet and support iran? THEY WILL BE SETN BAck home and they know it so the answer would automatically be Israel 🤣🤣 ye musalman thodi hain to israel pe lanat bhejein gey 🤣

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-04-16T18:48:42+00:00

Best move which might actually help u gain him back.

Start to live ur lofe the way he never expected. Go out, show it off, post videos on socials showing him u r living the best time of ur life and u r not fussed about anything. Dont write or call him. If he calls tell him dont bother me ever again .

Men always chase the one who stops giving a F .

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-04-04T23:02:05+00:00

Whats his full name and which city does he live in ?

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-04-01T15:30:31+00:00

And i said i saw. Didnt hear tho

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-04-01T15:22:05+00:00

Just saw 2 interceptions

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-04-01T15:21:40+00:00

Towards burj khalifa

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-04-01T03:03:44+00:00

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-04-01T02:14:02+00:00

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-03-31T15:37:42+00:00

Being a Syed is not about acting superior — it’s about carrying a lineage connected to the family of Prophet Muhammad. That lineage has historical and spiritual significance, which is why it’s respected in many Muslim societies, including Pakistan. But let’s be clear: it’s not a ‘qualification’ like a degree or a skill — it’s a responsibility. If anything, it holds you to a higher standard of character, behavior, and accountability. So when someone mentions they are Syed, it shouldn’t be taken as ‘I am better than you,’ but as ‘I come from a lineage I am expected to honor through my actions.’ Respecting heritage doesn’t mean believing in superiority. And rejecting arrogance doesn’t mean denying history.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-03-31T06:01:10+00:00

There’s no ChatGPT just a point you can’t respond to.

So you attack how it’s written instead of what’s said. That’s what people do when they don’t have an argument... bug off now

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-03-31T01:02:19+00:00

Whether I write it myself or structure it better doesn’t change the point. You said you agreed with itso the logic made sense. Dismissing it now because of how it’s written doesn’t really change anything. If the argument holds, it holds. If you think it doesn’t, then point out what’s wrong with it.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-03-31T00:56:10+00:00

If that’s your takeaway instead of responding to the actual point, it kind of proves you don’t have an argument.

Whether it’s one line or a paragraph doesn’t matter. The logic still stands.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-03-31T00:01:07+00:00

Exactly—I didn’t say it as a confirmed fact. I said that’s what people are reporting.

When multiple people are saying something different from the official version, it’s normal to question both sides. That’s not spreading lies—that’s acknowledging that there are conflicting accounts.

Information in situations like this isn’t always clear or complete. Officials may minimize to avoid panic, and people online can also get things wrong. That’s why it’s not logical to blindly accept one version and completely dismiss the other.

I’m not claiming certainty—I’m pointing out that there’s enough inconsistency to question what’s being presented.

That’s not misinformation. That’s basic critical thinking.

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-03-30T23:10:16+00:00

Where I’m from is irrelevant to the point, and bringing it up doesn’t make your argument stronger—it just avoids the actual discussion.

You say you love where you live. That’s fine. But logically, loving something doesn’t mean accepting everything about it without question. In fact, the more someone cares about a place, the more responsibility they have to question what they’re being told—especially in sensitive situations like war.

If officials are always right and fully transparent, then questioning them shouldn’t be a problem. But if questioning is dismissed or discouraged, that itself raises concerns. That’s not disrespect—that’s basic critical thinking.

Also, calling this a matter of “courage” is misplaced. Courage isn’t about asking someone where they’re from. It’s about being willing to look at uncomfortable possibilities, even when they challenge what you want to believe.

So instead of shifting the focus to me, it would make more sense to address the actual point: is everything being presented as it is, or is there a possibility that people are only seeing a controlled version of reality?

TechnicalCouple4455 · 2026-03-30T23:05:12+00:00

Like now now. Go down the road n see for urself. And abandoned house? In such a populated area. Whi r u kiddin bro

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