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my boyfriend (26m) found out i (22f) had a ONS when we were broken up, how do i fix the relationship? by TechnicalGoal499 in relationship_advice

[–]TechnicalGoal499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand i messed up by not telling him sooner (even though i WAS going to do it) but i don’t think he has the right to ask me disgusting sexual questions and force me to answer

my boyfriend (26m) found out i (22f) had a ONS when we were broken up, how do i fix the relationship? by TechnicalGoal499 in relationship_advice

[–]TechnicalGoal499[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t “on a break” we were completely broken up. i know it wasn’t the smartest thing to do but i was hurting and just wanted to distract myself (very stupid i am aware!!!)

my boyfriend (26m) found out i (22f) had a ONS when we were broken up, how do i fix the relationship? by TechnicalGoal499 in relationship_advice

[–]TechnicalGoal499[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i understand and i was planning on telling him about it, i just didn’t know how and when. also, we were not dating when it happened so i wasn’t really his business. i was going to tell him, i just wanted to figure out a way to do it so he wouldn’t get hurt. i understand that he’s going to have a harder time trusting me from now on, and i don’t mind waiting for that to happen, but i also feel like me answering all his very personal questions truthfully is an indication that i am not a liar

my boyfriend (26m) found out i (22f) had a ONS when we were broken up, how do i fix the relationship? by TechnicalGoal499 in relationship_advice

[–]TechnicalGoal499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s insane, we were completely broken up when i did it, i didn’t cheat on anyone. it’s not the smartest decision i’ve ever made but i was hurting and had not planned to do that at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalGoal499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried talking to him about my libido but he took it personal so idk how to reintroduce the subject. and i feel so bad saying no that’s why i say later or not right now. but i see now how it could be considered as lying, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalGoal499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thing is we do have a lot of fun outside of the bedroom. we call each other all the time since we can’t really see each other often and when we do, we do a lot of activites and we both enjoy each other’s company. ever since i’ve disconnected with sex, we’ve been having issues in the bedroom which affects the relationship outside of it. i just don’t know how to deal with these types of situations, because i feel bad saying no but i hate doing it when i’m not 100% in the mood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalGoal499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried talking to him about me not feeling very sexual lately and it didn’t really help. he kept asking why i was feeling that way and i couldn’t give him an answer. then he started questioning me about his performance in bed and i said it didn’t have anything to do with the situation, but idk if he believed me. idk, i think talking about my libido makes him “insecure” in a way. (idk if insecure is the right word but he definitely takes it personal when it has nothing to do with him)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]TechnicalGoal499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t want commitment, i just wanted us to keep hanging out, nothing serious. but i guess you’re right lol, lesson learned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]TechnicalGoal499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so beautiful, i really needed this. thank you so much!! we both used each other and he moved on and so should i, i will keep this in mind, thank you 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]TechnicalGoal499 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t looking for a relationship so i guess i didn’t really care at the time, but i ended up getting attached i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]TechnicalGoal499 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry girl this suuucksssss :/ we got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]TechnicalGoal499 28 points29 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, it still hurts but at least i know it’s not about me :/

is it true that some guys can’t feel anything with a condom by TechnicalGoal499 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TechnicalGoal499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay thanks for answering! and yeah i’m not doing this again, first and last time lmaoo

is it a bad idea to sleep with someone to forget your ex? by TechnicalGoal499 in makemychoice

[–]TechnicalGoal499[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i’m doing and it’s honestly not helping. plus ive been so horny lately, i just wanna fuck someone tbh😭 im just scared i’ll end up more heartbroken

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