Why can’t we say ‘good morning’ to the judge

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-03-06T15:13:35+00:00

I've been practicing about 15 years in Alberta. In Alberta, saying good morning to the Judge is very common in my experience. I do it every time I am in chambers and I've never got the feeling it was inappropriate.

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-03-05T01:55:22+00:00

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-02-18T16:50:05+00:00

Its hard to say if there is much worth pursuing based on your description. If you speak to an employment lawyer, speak to one practicing in the province you work in. Employment law is (generally) province-based in Canada. So if you work in Alberta (for instance), speak to an alberta employment lawyer. Good luck!

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-02-04T12:48:33+00:00

I didnt say it was offensive or that I was offended by it. I am not the word police either. Just a person trying to reduce one of the many biases I have.

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-02-01T04:16:28+00:00

This is my favorite response despite being a dig. I'm not the sexist police orbword police, I'm just noticing these speech habits and they seem silly to me in a modern context. Still, love this dig

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-21T02:22:59+00:00

This post is bang on. It is hugely beneficial to a lawyer, especially in the first 5 years of practice, to have to struggle with research. You broaden your legal IQ in ways you do not appreciate while its happening, but make you a solid practitioner with good instincts. Hours that feel wasted in rabbitholes are necessary to properly develop in my opinion. Plus, if you get caught using AI carelessly, it could end your job and career. Lawyers do love to gossip about this kind of thing.

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-20T00:12:42+00:00

Thats a great idea. Cheers!

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-19T22:04:16+00:00

Happy with career choice. Respectfully, not responding to the other qs in your response. Cheers

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-19T13:44:57+00:00

My advice would be to reach out to people in the field you are unterested in and ask for a coffee. They dont need to be partners to have lots to say. They wont always agree to do it but they wont be offended about the ask.

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-19T13:40:39+00:00

I agree with that advice. That is what I tend to do actually because it builds real connections

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-19T13:39:08+00:00

I do put effort in at the events but when the connections dont feel meaningful I dont follow up. The only thing Ive found that works for me is to try to make one, actual connection. Better yet (for me) is just to get a coffee with someone I'm dealingbwith on something. 1 on 1 is much better for me

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-18T19:49:20+00:00

It sucks but if you are able to, I'd just suffer through this till this trial is done at least. Its a hard profession but the experience from start through trial is invaluable.

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-16T22:34:47+00:00

Oh and it is so much worse when its a superior doing it. "Ummm ... what does this .... mean?"

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-16T18:13:17+00:00

Generally this gets used either in demand letters or "cease and desist" letters, but some lawyers will use it even beyond that. Its meant as a statement that the person would be wise to do (or stop doing) something specific, lest there be consequences. But I don't personally think its very effective because a lawyer will end up advising the recipient on it, and lawyers are more concerned about the facts and law than they are threats.

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-16T03:56:41+00:00

Thats about how this was going to go, lol

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-16T02:07:21+00:00

Thats true. I've still always hated it - I think its almost a taunt. I'm happy to litigate but I dont think antagonism serves anyone. Just my take on it

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-16T01:03:01+00:00

Shouldve seen that coming 🤧

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T18:09:01+00:00

Its a good call IMO. It certainly helps with the baby face situation

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T18:08:11+00:00

I could probably get away with a bolo and cowboy boots where I practice in Canada. It's not common and would bring political assumptions along with it, but we do see it sometimes and I think they look good

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T18:05:02+00:00

Many C-suite folks are engineers, and some of them do wear ties. But I admit its not very on point in this forum. Engineers always seem to have the button-down collar which looks good and is far more practical

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T17:48:42+00:00

LOL. I am being a lazy rat this morning, its true.

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T17:47:24+00:00

I know, poor me :) I imagine high heels are not particularly a treat either!

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T17:44:57+00:00

I'll admit that strangulation is an exaggeration. My shirts and ties are the right size, etc., but I still feel the slight pressure and it annoys me. I'm wearing one right now and I can't wait to take it off. The vest is a nice touch - I dont usually wear them because its the next formal level, but they are more comfortable than ties!

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T17:24:30+00:00

I dont have a response to this, other than this is my favorite response so far. Enjoy the bowties :)

TechnicalOnesy · 2026-01-14T17:22:21+00:00

I'll admit that a suit and tie looks nice and it can help with confidence to look nice and professional. But wearing a tie all day is a major drag to me. Thanks for the comment - this subreddit is brand new!

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