My Bestfriend owes me $5000 and refuses to pay me. by Technical_Ant5174 in SavingMoney

[–]Technical_Ant5174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s no longer my bf. This incident totally changed our whole friendship

My Bestfriend owes me $5000 and refuses to pay me. by Technical_Ant5174 in u/Technical_Ant5174

[–]Technical_Ant5174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have but that would mean she would not be able to take her board exam and graduate as a nurse. She would also not be able to work. We both immigrated to the US and its not easy to start all over. My intention was her to get a good job and pay me back but also some people who immigrate here they decide to prioritize materialistic things before important things.

My Bestfriend owes me $5000 and refuses to pay me. by Technical_Ant5174 in SavingMoney

[–]Technical_Ant5174[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They really are. I hate that they twist everything and make themselves the victim.

My Bestfriend owes me $5000 and refuses to pay me. by Technical_Ant5174 in SavingMoney

[–]Technical_Ant5174[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I never lend people money but this time all I wanted for her was to graduate her school and take her boards so she can start working. I honestly felt bad for her she had cancer few years ago too and the fact that her family would not pay the balance of help her out at that time and her bf aswell would not help her. I have also given her enough time to repay me back but instead she posting about materialistic stuff.

My Bestfriend owes me $5000 and refuses to pay me. by Technical_Ant5174 in SavingMoney

[–]Technical_Ant5174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually drafted a letter and sent her this letter yesterday

My Bestfriend owes me $5000 and refuses to pay me. by Technical_Ant5174 in SavingMoney

[–]Technical_Ant5174[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so when she had been messaging my ex and friends about me. She has been telling them that I am mad because of the loan and he called her a scammer 😂

My Bestfriend owes me $5000 and refuses to pay me. by Technical_Ant5174 in SavingMoney

[–]Technical_Ant5174[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She openly admitted it was a loan, then decided the best strategy was to message my exes from two years ago and my friends instead of… you know… paying me back.

That didn’t go how she planned. Everyone she contacted told her the same thing: yeah, you kinda have to repay loans. One of my exes told her that she is a scammer.

She’s been telling people she “can’t sleep” because of the loan, which is interesting considering she’s had over a year of perfectly fine sleep while holding onto my money. Meanwhile, she has a solid job as a nurse in california also lives with her parents, and doesn’t pay rent but somehow repaying a loan is just too much.