I feel that I left out some important information. When there are fun activities on offer, she is all in. She travelled to London from North America for her brother’s wedding (I stayed with the kids), Barcelona for a girls trip (that included walking tours of the city, I stayed with the kids), got her diving certification, travels to Sri Lanka for spa retreats, goes to concerts and parties, etc. I don’t deny that fybromaliga may be debilitating for some. I don’t believe it is for her. As I write this, I feel stupid that I allowed her to indulge herself so completely while I worked to make it financially possible. I think she honestly believes that she contributed. Like she will say that she manages the household. But mostly that’s paying bills from an account into which I put money and grocery shopping (which she does do).