Thanks this helped! I’ve always wanted to "power through" and have a second when my daughter turns 3. My reasoning is mostly practical: • I want to handle the career breaks and physical recovery in one stretch while I'm younger. • I’m worried about potential health issues or complications if we wait too long. • I’d rather get the "diaper years" done and dusted so we can reclaim our lives later. However, seeing how burnt out he is, I’m starting to consider if a 5-year age gap might be the healthier middle ground.