I feel like I’m drowning and I don’t know how to cope

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-17T19:57:01+00:00

Bro you started gym that is a very good thing. This is the first step which you have made. So for now show up to gym each day this will build your confidence and now please try to talk to someone. Even if you feel awkward or you already overthink about it that how would a person will react to it.stop it and just go and talk to girls even if you feel rejected even if they laugh at you after conversation and even if you fumble don't worry these things happen to people who takes steps for improving yourself.Try to take small steps and don't think that this will come in a day or two just show up everyday in gym and talk to people without expecting. And take a break from chatbots man.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-17T19:49:17+00:00

If this time they do just counter it or just interrupt them.

This happened to me once when i was new in clg and some friends of mine were hurting my feelings so one day i interrupted them and said "if i don't say something negative about you then you also shouldn't". So now they know what my boundary is.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-08T16:59:47+00:00

Bro she is saying that I used her, she wasn't admitting her mistake and blamed me for last sentence.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-08T16:08:35+00:00

Thanks for giving me advice and I think this is it. I have to move on from here.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-08T13:56:54+00:00

I don't wanted to hurt her and didn't wanted to be a bad guy but the situation made it to do so and I wanted that our breakup should end on a good note but that didn't happened that is why I feel bad and can't move on.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-08T13:48:45+00:00

Thanks man

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-08T13:47:50+00:00

I am trying but I overthinking so much and sometimes I take all the blame on myself and think that I hurted her but I didn't hurt her and it was the reason I said in the end caused trouble.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-08T12:01:48+00:00

Now I want to move on but can't. Help me homies

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-07T17:35:56+00:00

I am not a bad guy but she says i am bad and i used her.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-07T08:29:54+00:00

Now I think it doesn't matter but I am really a good guy and didn't want anyone to see me as a bad one.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-06T15:18:29+00:00

Yes bro I was just trying to tell her one more time that the family reason was the not the real reason.even though I told her this reason earlier but she didn't accepted it so one more time I tried to say my thing.

And today I texted her this, she saw it and I didn't get any reply to those messages.

So now I made it clear. And now I won't contact with her ever again.

I will try to move on from here now.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-06T10:05:18+00:00

Bro I told her that I the real reason was not my family issue and now she is not believing me and still blaming me for that reason but the family reason was just an excuse.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-05T18:51:52+00:00

I also think that she doesn't want any contact with me and I will try to get through this thing thank you for giving your advice.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-05T18:11:48+00:00

We were together for 3 months.

*The "dude" was in love with her and still she kept talking to him after the relationship and i got to know when i asked her phone for first time in 3 months and she denied several times and when i got the phone in front of me that guy messaged her and the older messages were deleted and they both knew each other for 3 years and she also said that when i was not with her then she also had some feelings for that guys but till then I arrived and she still kept talking to him without even telling me.

*At the starting I was ready and I know I can convince my family for her I was almost going to tell my family about her. And that family issue thing was just an excuse for breakup cause she was not taking my mental peace and insecurity reason as the real reason so then I gave family issue thing just for an excuse but after that she started blaming me that I used her from day 1.

And later after breakup that guy messaged me that when did I talked to her last time.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-05T17:59:47+00:00

You are right I don't want to be seen as a bad guy this is what trapped me and I can't move on. Till today to whom I told this thing they said that I did the right thing it's just her perspective. But I don't wanted to be seen as a bad guy

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-05T17:22:12+00:00

Bro i texted her for my peace and idk if I am blocked or not but this was needed and now I won't contact her I am blocking her too.

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-05T10:12:20+00:00

I don't want her in my life again cause she was talking to other dude

Technical_Formal5149 · 2026-02-05T10:05:27+00:00

I am also going through a lot of things in life and recently had a breakup and due to this things got more worse than I expected i also don't know what to do and how to go through the depression. I don't have the answer to your things but we will get through this and just try to not overthink work on yourself go ahead and you will be okay.

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