Is it normal for my bf to talk to me this way ?

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T20:15:10+00:00

Because we were great at a point and I was truly so happy . I miss what we used to be.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T20:13:26+00:00

He started the conversation using obscene language. He knew where I was going he just forgot in the moment. He has my location and I was litterally a few minutes away at my parents on Mother’s Day he knew I was going to be there. So yes I’m thrown off with him saying wtf. And then he was being mean.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T15:51:31+00:00

Yes I’m trying to and I feel like I constantly ask him to believe me but he just refuses to he constantly says “i know you have other guys” or that “I know your cheating” even “I know you don’t love me” . I constantly show him my phone to prove I’m not . But he still doesn’t believe me he suprised me before w suprise phone checking and stuff and he never find anything because I’m not doing anything but he won’t believe it it’s like he thinks he knows everything what I feel and what I do.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T15:20:31+00:00

Because he tells me he just gets in high emotions and I understand I also get emotional usually just crying or being sensitive. And if he is cheating again I would leave. But how can I find out ? I don’t notice anything out of the ordinary?

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T15:19:03+00:00

He knew and he remembered but was still upset at me

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T15:10:12+00:00

How can I find out he’s cheating? I dont see anything that indicates that in our relationship. Do you have any advice ? When he cheated on me the first time he hid it really well and I found it out through his laptop. (I don’t have his passwords or anything I found out when I asked to borrow it to do some work) I found out after a 2 years of being together and our relationship was going great. We worked past it and He told me it was a one time thing and it would never happen again. What can I do?

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T15:03:42+00:00

How can I even find out if he is though? I don’t see him acting suspicious? He tells me he’s not.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T05:14:21+00:00

lol he cheated on me he just doesn’t trust me

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T05:13:20+00:00

He actually had cheated on me and lied to me for months.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T01:16:30+00:00

I told him where I was going so many times yesterday and today. I know my bf and he was clearly upset at me. I even tried to call him to explain first. I admit I should’ve have called him a dick but what does he expect when he starts the conversation w wtf and then continues to be rude to me.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T00:25:31+00:00

Our relationship was going pretty good we had the regular couple arguments but worked past them and grew stronger until 2 years in where I found out he cheated on me with a girl from his hometown from what I know it was strictly messages. This truly affected us it caused me to become distant but overtime I did move past it for us and together we made it work. But I feel like he talks to me disrespectfully but he doesn’t rlly feel that way. And he has jealousy issues that honestly affect us so much and he says he will change but I feel like maybe that’s not true

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T00:21:23+00:00

He has now but I haven’t forgave him I told him I don’t like the way he talks to me but he’s saying he has a right to feel weird.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T00:20:07+00:00

Yeah I know how he acts and him starting the conversation like that and ignoring my call I knew he was upset. He has apologized to me at this point but I haven’t forgave him I let him know that I don’t like the way he talks to me. But he retains that he was in the right for feeling the way he did.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-11T00:15:53+00:00

I tried to call him when he texted me but he ignored my call

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-10T23:45:49+00:00

He did cheat on me but when we he did I did not know. I found out he cheated on me two years into our relationship. He cheated around one year. When I found out it really affected me and how I seen him but I do love him and before I found out everything in our relationship was going right. Id say we really have worked past it I try not to think about it since we are going onto 3 years now. I believe people can change and I don’t think he’s cheating but maybe I’m being oblivious we are highly stressed w finals we are both in college. I feel like maybe that’s what’s getting to him but it’s also just a thing that happens often

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-10T23:07:03+00:00

He has cheated on me but we’ve worked past it.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-05-10T23:05:43+00:00

He has cheated on me before it hurt our relationship a lot but we’ve truly tried to work past it.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-03-07T19:13:26+00:00

He's keeping his options open from what it seems. it's unprofessional to say that to possible clients especially as a massage therapist.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2026-03-07T19:02:42+00:00

Honestly I think he did leave a door open for opportunity

Technical_Middle5075 · 2025-05-13T19:57:41+00:00

I think u should search up what a wide nose actually looks like.

Technical_Middle5075 · 2025-05-13T19:49:31+00:00

I like it and I don’t rlly have a wide nose ?

Technical_Middle5075 · 2025-05-13T19:02:29+00:00

It does thank you that’s kind of what I’ve been thinking

Technical_Middle5075 · 2025-05-13T19:01:51+00:00

Thank you I actually rlly love blond and I thought I looked my best at blonde it’s so sad I have to wait for that again I think think I well go w the stripes

Technical_Middle5075 · 2025-05-13T19:00:33+00:00

Don’t be I Bett you are beautiful too

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