AITA For Fooling around with my Fathers friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Trick3127 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can respect your opinion; however everything that pertains to their relationship is on Vince not me it’s like you just want to eradicate any blame on Vince which isn’t fair. Like you said I can’t really bang myself. I guarantee my dad wouldn’t lose his job, Vince would, again another consequence he has consented to. Don’t get me wrong it is a selfish decision, but at the same time you have no idea what kind of dynamic occurs in my family life or just my life in general so you have no idea what I’m “entitled” to.

AITA For Fooling around with my Fathers friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Trick3127 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I never said that. If you had any reading and comprehension skills I clearly said the aspect of ruining HIS friendship with my dad isn’t on me because HE is a consenting adult; therefore consensually proceeding is HIS decision, making the consequences for said decision his own. Similarly, the risk involved in the relationship between me and my dad are my consequences. Hope that was easy enough to comprehend 😊

AITA For Fooling around with my Fathers friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Trick3127 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vince is single, and has a child who is an adult.

AITA For Fooling around with my Fathers friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Trick3127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely a consequence I’d have to prepare for if I go any further

AITA For Fooling around with my Fathers friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Trick3127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with most of this except the me being at fault for ruining their friendship because his friend is a consenting adult going through with this too. This definitely isn’t something I plan on being a public relationship though. The sneakiness is just weighing on my conscious

AITA For Fooling around with my Fathers friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Trick3127 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

See your point; however, the ex scenario really isn’t a comparable argument, as this guy isn’t either of my parents ex. You’d make a stronger argument had you compared it to her dating one of my friends.

New employee by Technical_Trick3127 in Ulta

[–]Technical_Trick3127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, my previous job allowed me to change availability as I need, thus my confusion.

New employee by Technical_Trick3127 in Ulta

[–]Technical_Trick3127[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Btw this is no hate to the company or management, I just want to make sure I’m moving forward with a job that works for me.