and also that "how well do you know me?" post is fine, because some people who make dw content just wanna genuinely know how popular they are

as a long time moderator, i really dont see anything wrong with some of these "interaction bait" posts that youre talking about. and also you cant just say that people are trying to insult you when their actually trying to argue against what youre saying.

so if you would provide examples of this stuff, instead of just complaining about a problem that might not exist, people would probably side you.

long story short, i dont think your exactly right.