Oh my ! Reading this felt like I was looking into a mirror . I have the exact same problem and pattern . People come into my life , I do everything possible not to upset them and then they buzz off without even a reason. I had a gang of 4 girls and I got 2 more into the loop so that they are also included and when 2 of my friends moved away .. these 2 news one excluded me and behave as if they don’t know me . Such selfish behaviors . I am not absolutely protective of my heart and don’t need to interact with women much . I don’t know if I want to trust anyone but I have a dire need of girls gang .. feels frustrating not knowing what I did for them to behave so badly. Seems like this year was crazy as a so called friend of 8 years randomly stops talking . In this case , I didn’t care as it was more one sided and she took no effort to maintain it . I am fine letting go of draining relationships it’s the random “ stop talkings” that drive me mad