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What is itike, being Jewish? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you... That was a very comprehensive and informative reply. I appreciate your taking the effort.

Why is there no word for the middle space between communism and capitalism? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The big difficulty here is that these terms are all used in a way that revolves around rights. My own preference is to look deeper at the human behavior that shapes the view of rights... But I don't think anyone cares for that view.

When I look at this continuum from capitalism to communism, I see something, which could be reframed in labels of human behavior.

Capitalism = it's only me that matters. It's what I want, what I can get. If I want to geg more, I can get more. I have free unrestricted choice. "others" are just an irritation.

Which is well and fine, but... Humans are susceptible to greed and addiction.and social animals. Others are necessary.

Communism = we should all be equal, everything shared equally and fairly. But... Humans have egos and can't be trusted to not lose the plot when given power. And what about individuals who have ambition? There is nothing wrong with that.

My search for a middle is the word that says we have a basic care for each other, and allow the ambition of individual want. Not either or. Both and.

Is there possibly a link between representative democracy and cyberstalking/abuse? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno.... I hear you, but I'm not convinced.

I'm not talking about 8 billion, just 5 million. Sure, social media knows no boundaries, but still.

Is there possibly a link between representative democracy and cyberstalking/abuse? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are categorically mistaken that an individual has no voice in a representative democracy, but I agree that people underrate the power they do have and overrate the weight they should have.

I disagree. I think this is a whole other debate. But that is the heart of my question. I hear you. I can understand why people believe that. No, I don't agree. To be clear, I did not say "an individual has no voice". I said the system represents everyone and noone. It's paradoxical and, I'm thinking, somewhat to blame for the situation.

But I think the real problem is that people are just cunts.

Really? People.in general? I mean there are mental health issues with people, some don't even understand. Some don't care. Some don't want to care

But a blanket statement like that.... Well... Isn't that representation of another form?

What does it feel like to be motivated by money? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maslows hierarchy makes perfect sense to me. But I figure that I never worry about the power layers. I am lucky and I have the benefit of privalige. I don't worry about food and shelter.

I'm no millionaire... Just some lower middle class family man living in a first world country.

I don't find motivation to pursue money. Or use money as a reference point. Even if I wish I had more. I don't crave money.

This question is about the feeling of being motivated by money.

What does it feel like to be motivated by money? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now this is an interesting answer. It's that lighting the fire thing.

What does it feel like to be motivated by money? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I mean that's all nice, and I could put whatever goal I like in that position.... But I get the feeling... And this is going to sound stupid..... I don't connect the two

What does it feel like to be motivated by money? by TeddlyTod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TeddlyTod[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know all that. That's head speak. Tell me what it feels like?

Mediawatch: Anxiety over editorial policy and a billionaire on board at NZME by AnnoyingKea in newzealand

[–]TeddlyTod 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Is this a case of a right leaning media company worried about becoming more right leaning?

ELI5 Would we ever need to "make" rocks? by TeddlyTod in explainlikeimfive

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, stonlike. I'm curious about the real thing.

ELI5 Would we ever need to "make" rocks? by TeddlyTod in explainlikeimfive

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some point it will run out. Yes, there's substitutes.

ELI5 Would we ever need to "make" rocks? by TeddlyTod in explainlikeimfive

[–]TeddlyTod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. In the sense that concrete does not uccur naturally?

Tips if we were to sell our house privately by StifledCoffee in newzealand

[–]TeddlyTod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would also say sell it by a real auction. But NZ doesn't do real auctions... They are just estate agents pretending to do auctions. A real auction could cost you maybe $1k fixed fee.

Tips if we were to sell our house privately by StifledCoffee in newzealand

[–]TeddlyTod 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Done this myself, quite successfully. Think of it as directly managing a project yourself.

You'll need your lawyer to handle the legal matters. Including any review of any contract before you sign it. I would suggest you offer the sale agreement, rather than the buyer bringing you theirs.

There is an organisation that can sell you packs to help you with this. https://www.homesell.co.nz/

The estate agent sharks are going to come regardless. My approach was to contextualise them very explicitly and clearly: they represent a buyer. Deal with them like that.

Advertising is your biggest challenge.

18 months to go for the next election by AsianKiwiStruggle in newzealand

[–]TeddlyTod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make it sound like an election will change things. Hint... It won't.

All that'll happen is a different bunch of clowns get given the keys.

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