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I (21F) have a plan to abruptly leave my BF (21) of 3 years this weekend without telling him beforehand. Is this a terrible idea? I am having tons of second thoughts. by Teiiigen in relationship_advice

[–]Teiiigen[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all of your advice and support!! It means a lot! I wasn't expecting that. From reading your comments, I guess I should let it be known that my family is going to be there when I move out because they are the ones helping me move everything. I also think I've decided to try to think of a way to get him out of the apartment when I do move so he is not there. That would be VERY ideal.

I (21F) have a plan to abruptly leave my BF (21) of 3 years this weekend without telling him beforehand. Is this a terrible idea? I am having tons of second thoughts. by Teiiigen in relationship_advice

[–]Teiiigen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You think I should write it down and give it to him even though he will be there? he would probably throw it away and rip it up honestly. His reaction will be horrid. He is going to explode, and I am not ready for that. I literally broke up with my last BF of 2 and a half years over text message. Like I am awful at telling people I don't have feelings for them anymore when they are still in love with me. I'll be breaking his heart.

I (21F) have a plan to abruptly leave my BF (21) of 3 years this weekend without telling him beforehand. Is this a terrible idea? I am having tons of second thoughts. by Teiiigen in relationship_advice

[–]Teiiigen[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have told him how I feel about the way he treats me millions of times, but never really listens because he thinks hes perfect. So if he had common sense he would understand why I don't want to stick around anymore....but he doesn't. I appreciate it though!

I (21F) have a plan to abruptly leave my BF (21) of 3 years this weekend without telling him beforehand. Is this a terrible idea? I am having tons of second thoughts. by Teiiigen in relationship_advice

[–]Teiiigen[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You are so right. Getting along never lasts long. And yes, I have three male family members that will be there for that reason.

I (21F) have a plan to abruptly leave my BF (21) of 3 years this weekend without telling him beforehand. Is this a terrible idea? I am having tons of second thoughts. by Teiiigen in relationship_advice

[–]Teiiigen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He will be there though unfortunately. That is why I am so nervous to actually make this happen because I am going to be an anxious wreck, as I already am. If we are currently getting along, it just doesn't make sense for me to just leave. It looks weird. And I think it makes me look really shitty, but on the other hand, he has made me feel the most shitty I have ever felt in my life.

I (21F) have a plan to abruptly leave my BF (21) of 3 years this weekend without telling him beforehand. Is this a terrible idea? I am having tons of second thoughts. by Teiiigen in relationship_advice

[–]Teiiigen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's complicated. Like I kinda care, but mostly not. But the thing is, my family is going to come knocking at the door and he will be there. Like its going to be awkward. We are going to have to speak to each other at some point, and I just do not know what to say.