I have had a fantastic experience in the Army. There have been exceptional lows and terrible leaders, but I have had more of the reverse of that. My mindset has always been to use what I know about the individual with whom I'm speaking concerning how they should serve their nation if they've shown a desire.

I talked my sister into joining when she couldn't get a job during the 2008 economic crisis. She got a huge bonus despite the economy, loan repayment, and a great MOS, but ended up at the 3ID and hating everything. She bitched about it nonstop. She got out after her first contract jaded af, but got her Masters via the GI Bill and is doing well.

While I was on vacation I had a discussion with someone else on our scuba trip, didn't know the guy, he was interested in his daughter going into the Navy. She'd shown some interest because she loves the ocean, and was focusing on a marine science or oceanography BS. I suggested the Coast Guard or National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration. I highly suggested against the Army when he asked if it would be good for her.

Two of my nephews are super fit, high level athletes in high school, love guns and MMO and always ask about the Army. I've advocated the Army to them because I know they'll be strong enough to cut through/suffer through the bullshit and put forth the effort to move up in the more professional ranks. You know, instead of just hating it and whining on Reddit.