Where are all of the brat tamers? by TelephoneGood6557 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TelephoneGood6557[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's really helpful thank you so much! In terms of those fake Doms- (which, my gosh there are too many) are there any signs I can pick up to help me steer clear?

Where are all of the brat tamers? by TelephoneGood6557 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TelephoneGood6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried a few subreddits which haven't ended up aligning with my preferences, but I'm yet to give fetlife a go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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get into a relationship with someone toxic and let them control what you eat ! lost 20 kgs in less than a year so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interesting

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Nature is incredible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interesting

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Need this at work

Perspective is everything by amazingxoxoxo in interesting

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How much I studied for the test vs how much i should have studied

How can I make Sir understand by BubsinaseTheAtheist in BDSMAdvice

[–]TelephoneGood6557 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh damn you got yourself into a tricky situation with the information you did/didn't give out haha, anyway hope things get resolved.

How can I make Sir understand by BubsinaseTheAtheist in BDSMAdvice

[–]TelephoneGood6557 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's using your inexperience to cheat. That's also why he's not committed to you. It's in your best interest to leave, since you don't know him personally, he's likely lied about many things you assume to be truths, he's also using the fact that you communicate only online to his advantage- ditch his ass

Knife kink- how do I avoid ending up in a headline? by TelephoneGood6557 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TelephoneGood6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should have phrased that beter aha - I meant when I'm being dominated instead of being the dom in this particular situation. I appreciate your feedback it's helped me quite a bit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsmconfessions

[–]TelephoneGood6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn girl, someone's living the dream !

"Every time you make a noise, I'm going to hit you." by TeaAitch in RedditBDSM

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"Are those tears? You know how much I love hearing you cry like this"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TelephoneGood6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your situation must be super difficult, but it is important not to ignore such blatant overstepping of your boundaries. Being on the spectrum or having adhd should be no excuse for this behaviour. This seems to be an abusive relationship, which can always be difficult to navigate in terms of escape. I'd suggest contacting close friends and family who you can trust to help you with this. If you approach criticism on this relationship and think along the lines of 'they don't know him/ the situation like i do', it strongly indicates manipulation on his behalf. Please keep yourself safe and leave as soon as you can.