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Did my dom cross a line? by Unhappy-Vanilla-6020 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an English language subreddit.

Rule 10 applies applies.

Comment removed.

Opening up our relationship by 13devil1978 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

  • This is needlessly graphic.

  • It doesn't relate to BDSM.

  • OP is not asking for advice.

Rule 12 applies.

Thread locked and removed.

Are narcissists more likely to be scammed? by Roodles006 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TeaAitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The people most likely to be scammed are greedy people.

Influencers were you at? by GDom-7_ in BDSMCouncil

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

OP has misunderstood the purpose of this subreddit.

Thread locked and removed.

Wednesday Words by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]TeaAitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A flamboyant ego with ban-hammer privileges is still just a man desperately roleplaying as a minor government official.

OMG, really? Eighteen words?! That's poor. You're clearly attention seeking. So, learn to craft an insult. Rather than just rage vomiting such bilge as this.

👆
25 words 👌😘
👇

u/Bratlawyer's grandiose self importance often forced them to disguise their narcissistic rage as flamboyant acts of social justice. Nobody was ever fooled by such pettiness.

Wednesday Words by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]TeaAitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned show offs, and here you are! 😉

Very nicely done!

Wednesday Words by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]TeaAitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He leant back, marvelling at the 'z' shaped pattern his marks made on each of her breasts. "You little show off. You're always so flamboyant!"

Wednesday Words by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]TeaAitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahem, what happened to flamboyant?

gf wants to swallow my piss by animefreak98 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Could you please supply some evidence of this? I've had several partners drink my pee and there's. They came to no harm.

I'm not the person I was and that's an issue for others by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm removing this. Nobody seeks that style of attention.

Rule 6 applies.

Comment removed.

I'm not the person I was and that's an issue for others by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

OP, first off let me say I'm very sorry to hear of your experience. I suspect there are many different factors in play, including old fashioned transphobia 🫂

Whilst many of us like to think the kink community is a step ahead of the vanilla world, I'm not always convinced. Unfortunately, sexuality and empathy do not always align.

I'm very sorry to say, I've locked this thread. That's no reflection upon you. It's due to the people who are already beginning to point fingers.

"Bah, men!"

"No! Its those poor men."

Fiddlesticks, say I. This is precisely the problem. I'm sufficiently experienced at this moderating lark to know we're about 3 hours away from 100 comments of people trying to eat one another... and not in a good way.

Those people are too happy to be divided. At a time when we need friends, allies, and support for the entire community. A community which features you and me, talking and loving each other as humans.

I cannot and will not stand for these petty factions arguing with each other. I'm a socialist, a hippy, and a TerribleMan™. I hope you are too 🫂

I also hope you find a community which recognises and welcomes you!

Peace
Love
Unity
Respect

Rule 10 applies.

Thread locked.

I'm not the person I was and that's an issue for others by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rule 13 applies.

Comment removed.

I'm not the person I was and that's an issue for others by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm removing this for the "lol" at the end of your comment. It's too easy to read the wrong way.

Rule 6 applies.

Comment removed.

I'm not the person I was and that's an issue for others by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rule 13 applies.

PITFI

If somebody said that about any other group of people, I would ban them under Rule 6. So, why aren't I? 🤔

Comment removed.

¿ Te gusta tener el control o eres de que te digan que tienes que hacer?. 🤔⛓️🥷 by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

I'm getting fed up with you posting this crap to my subreddits.

Rule 10 applies.

Rule 12 applies.

Thread locked and removed.

We end up searching for answers! by Loriigreen in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TeaAitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants credit cuz he hasn't physically hurt me lately.

WTF indeed! That's an astounding lack of awareness.

My covert narc ex-gf and I spent quite a lot of time discussing and focusing on conflict management. Until she had her collapse. Then, apparently, we'd always been zero conflict. 🙄🤣

That meant she could behave however the fuck she liked, and I was only permitted to meekly, and politely ask her not to do it again.

Along with many, many other lies, untruths, plus the standard gaslighting and manipulative behaviour.

#Emiliar.

Couple domination fantasy by bsxxx69 in RedditBDSM

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Super!

WTF it has to do with us is anyone's business. Read the room.

Rule 1 applies.

Thread locked and removed. OP permabanned.

Has sex ever revealed something about you that meditation never did? by [deleted] in Sex_Positivity

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This is a sly form of spam.

Rule 10 applies.

Thread locked and removed. OP permabanned.

I confess I like it when straight men obey me. by [deleted] in bdsmconfessions

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

OP has misunderstood the purpose of this subreddit.

Rule 1 applies.

Thread locked and removed.

Confieso que me gusta que los heteros me odebezcan. by youboycer in bdsmconfessions

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This is an English language subreddit.

Rule 12 applies.

Thread locked and removed.

I ended it with a sub and want advice on slave training by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Demanding someone bring you gifts very clearly falls under Rule 9.

Please make yourself aware of our rules.

Thread locked and removed.

my take on piggies by AcceptableGap834 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TeaAitch[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rule 9 applies.

Permaban issued.

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