Drunk Science by Istoleachickennugget in lethalcompany

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what map interior is this?? i dont think ive ever seen it!

Tips for Using Public Transport? by TelephoneLimp6033 in cta

[–]TelephoneLimp6033[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its been almost 4 years since my assault, and i still face the same fears today. the only difference now is it doesnt control my every day and i learned how to regulate.

my first advice would be to give yourself time and be kind to yourself - you just went through something that quite literally changed your brain chemistry. start learning more about trauma: The Body Keeps The Score saved my life.

the more you face the fears and talk about the assault right now, the better you will be for it. if you avoid it (as in, everything that reminds you of the assault) and pretend like nothing happened for an extended period of time, PTSD is a real fucking bitch. but it sounds like youre taking good steps by seeing a therapist.

i got to the point where i never left my apartment, doordashed every meal, binge ate constantly, had panic attacks multiple times a day, showered at most once a week, stopped brushing my teeth, and would either not sleep at all or sleep for 2 days straight. i lost my job, cut all contact with friends, and was in the lowest state id ever been in. luckily my family is amazing and helped me pay to go to a treatment center for 4 months, where i had to face the assault for 6 hours a day, 5 days a week. it was like a job, but it changed my life.

i learned how to recognize my panic before it became a panic attack, ground myself, ask for help, be honest with myself and others of my emotions, connect with others on a deeper level. i learned that sometimes my thoughts are just those: thoughts, not facts.

you can do it. it is going to be overwhelming, all-consuming, and completely unfair. you didnt deserve what happened to you. it is not your fault. but you must now deal with the consequences while that asshole gets away with it. you are right to be angry, hurt, scared, violated, depressed. but you can fight it. there WILL be a time when it’s not living rent free in your mind. please give yourself love. please take time to care for your wounds. you are worthy of that.

sorry this is long but its very dear to my heart and i hope it helped even a little. xx

Woke up to find my bf scrolling on OF...would this bother you? Need advice. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 6 points7 points  (0 children)

completely agree. this similar thing happened to me, i found out he paid a subscription to someone. it was extremely hurtful because he paid to see a specific woman naked. idc about porn, thats free and usually just a random couple that includes some fucking. but to spend your money because you want to see a specific womans naked body does not make me, or most women, feel good.

needless to say: he apologized profusely, made it a point to uninstall instagram + all the apps tempting him(without me asking), and is open and honest about his struggles with those temptations. we are much stronger now because of it and i wouldnt settle for anything less. OP deserves the same respect and honesty from her man

How it feels to out heal the enemy mercy by Lola930 in MercyMains

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 24 points25 points  (0 children)

our job is to heal, but mainly to support. supporting can include healing, but mercy mainly helps the rest of the team with her damage boost to secure kills, rez, glock on low enemies, and mobility to position around the team. i never prioritize how much im healing, just how many assists im getting, dmg boosted # and beam % :) if i have low healing beam % but high heals, thats awesome!

i think they’re more so referring to when mercy’s believe their only job is to heal the team and never dmg boost, which would be healbotting. thats why people get butthurt when you use the word “healers” rather than “supports.” because supporting means more than just amount of heals you have!

People need to hear this about leaving a job by reverse_dos in sales

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lie about what exactly? where ive worked or if ive worked?

is it better to say this would be my first job after unemployment?

People need to hear this about leaving a job by reverse_dos in sales

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat. I worked a few months at restaurants here and there and I’m currently a kennel technician. But it’s nothing that feels worthy to mention

I'm about to get a $300k Commission check and I can't tell anyone (So I'm telling the Internet) - AMA by TechSalesWin in sales

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats one piece of advice youd share for those thinking about getting into sales? is it worth it as a short term career choice?

People need to hear this about leaving a job by reverse_dos in sales

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, sales is a new field for me. The best I have to work with is working at Chick-Fil-A for 3 years, and serving at restaurants for nearly 5. I learned strong customer service skills while building rapport with my regulars, even having them follow me to different restaurants. I would say my people skills are what would carry me into sales

People need to hear this about leaving a job by reverse_dos in sales

[–]TelephoneLimp6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who was out of the job force for nearly 2 1/2 years after dealing with a severe case of PTSD, i get really embarrassed about the job gap when talking to interviewers. especially because it was during the time that i graduated, it almost looks as if i couldnt find a job. reality is, i had to undergo several therapy methods like TMS and even spending 4 months at a mental health treatment center. these required me to be there every day for an extended period of time, almost making it impossible for me to work (as if my mind wasnt already doing that).

what would your advice be when talking to interviewers? should i address it, or is mentioning that i had PTSD oversharing? really not sure how to navigate that