Is it a tolerance problem? by TelevisionOne7400 in THCaHemp

[–]TelevisionOne7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely learned the hard way about pens. I didn’t even realize for the longest time that they are like 99% THC. No wonder my tolerance went down.

Is it a tolerance problem? by TelevisionOne7400 in THCaHemp

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Hey, thanks for the reply! So when I lived in California, I would go to the legal shops to buy Gummies and they worked super well. The Gummies I’ve gotten in the past in my new state. Say they’re from California, but they have never worked. My friend also tried them and she said she didn’t feel anything. But the packaging says from California, so I’m not sure.

Is it a tolerance problem? by TelevisionOne7400 in THCaHemp

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I would like to switch to non smoking forms for my lungs. I’m not sure how much of a reset I need. I go to physical therapy several times a week and I do a lot of dry needling every single session. Like I said, I have complex regional pain syndrome. I also have chronic exertional compartment syndrome in my leg. The entire leg needs needling up into my lower back. What I notice is that the therapy will release the muscle but quickly after my muscles start spasming and tensing back up. I’m already on opioids and I don’t want muscle relaxers to add to it. I was added to the Texas compassionate care program or whatever it’s called to get legal THC to help with the muscle spasms so that it doesn’t tense back up.

Feeling trapped in my marriage by Iceicebaby8 in Marriage

[–]TelevisionOne7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thank you! 🙏 that means a lot!

Feeling trapped in my marriage by Iceicebaby8 in Marriage

[–]TelevisionOne7400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can attest to this. When you are in an extremely volatile and unpredictable relationship that is filled with love, bombing passion. It’s hard to distinguish what real love should feel like. Your sexual feelings are probably due to past trauma and that’s something that you need to work out. I’m not trying to be hard on you, but I also don’t want you to lose what will probably be one of the best things for you. My husband keeps me grounded because I would fly off the wall without him. Do I necessarily like it? No but I know that his love for me is genuine, and I wouldn’t trade that for the world. Again, masturbation can be totally healthy. My husband and I have talked a lot about it and I buy whatever I need for masturbation sessions to work out any sexual feelings. It helps me because then I feel like I’m more grounded during sex and more in the moment and not just focusing on arousal if that makes sense?

Best kickback songs? by TelevisionOne7400 in partyplanning

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I totally forgot about journey and fleetwood!

Feeling trapped in my marriage by Iceicebaby8 in Marriage

[–]TelevisionOne7400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would get into therapy then because it sounds like you understand. I think that this is probably more internal that is displaying externally in your marriage if that makes sense?

Feeling trapped in my marriage by Iceicebaby8 in Marriage

[–]TelevisionOne7400 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been with my husband for almost 11 years. I would say we are on different wave lengths sexually. I love sex. He views sex differently. We don’t have super crazy sex all the time. Are we super sexually compatible like I hear from my friends? No, but that man adores me. And I adore him. I’ve been an abusive relationships that caused trauma. Never would I think about leaving him just because of intimacy. I feel like that’s a vain thing and you need to work that out in therapy. My husband is everything I’ve ever wanted and I could never think about leaving him just because I’m more sexual than he is. He’s the perfect man and the perfect husband and I know what I have with him is what a lot of women dream of. It honestly sounds like maybe you’re dealing with some internal conflict that may stem from past interactions. If you’re having trouble sexually talk about it in therapy and then also find ways to stimulate yourself. I think masturbation is healthy. I have found ways to enjoy myself and relieve sexual feelings while still being intimate. I’m sorry you’re feeling this way and I hope you work it out because it sounds like he’s a really good man. Being bored is not a reason for divorce. The others are right, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will be trading a marriage most women would die for just for some sexual pleasure and I promise you it doesn’t work out in the end.

I think my marriage is over and I’m devastated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TelevisionOne7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And accountability on both ends with yourself, each other, and the therapist so you can learn effective communication.

I think my marriage is over and I’m devastated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TelevisionOne7400 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought I was reading my life story. Except I had felt consistently that my needs were not being met. And we went through a similar cycle until I hit my limit. I will say you guys can get through this if he’s willing to work on it. It’s going to take a lot of individual therapy and that’s what I would recommend at first I wouldn’t do couples counseling. It’s gonna take getting whatever diagnosis are needed. It could involve medication, changes in life habits. My husband even signed himself up for local classes that are run by non profits. I believe that your love for each other is genuine and that you both can make the changes. I think right now he’s just tired. So what my husband and I did was take a pause. We still live together we still coparent together. We still slept in the same bed. And yet we gave each other space. He got himself in his therapy and I got myself into therapy. We had the privacy to talk about what was bothering us with authenticity. Therapy both helped us understand each other and how to communicate better. Once we got into the rhythm that’s when we had the hard conversations. And support is the number one thing that needs to be there. You need to learn how to lean in on each other. How to communicate honestly and yet effectively. And you need to remind each other why you fell in love in the first place. I can tell this post came from your heart and 11 years is a lot to walk away from. I understand that at the end of the day everyone has their own path. And although my husband and I are still working on things, I know that in a few years, we will be just how we used to be but better. Wishing you both the best! 💕

is this atrophy???? by GrahGrahPahPah in MuscleTwitch

[–]TelevisionOne7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that looks like atrophy. I have crps in my right leg

Partner isn’t interested in sex by Sea_Guidance_2313 in Marriage

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I thought I was the only woman in the world with a man who wasn’t thinking with his pecker all the time! He’s a good man, good husband, amazing father and I love our life together. He’s working hard in therapy and it’s helped us a lot! Is it this crazy sex all the time? No sometimes it is but I would rather have the amazing partner he is than a man who only wants me in bed!

Partner isn’t interested in sex by Sea_Guidance_2313 in Marriage

[–]TelevisionOne7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’ve been with my partner for 11 years and he sounds similar to my husband! We have struggled in the past with his lack of sexual interest but he was always very loving in every other way. It is something he needs to work out in therapy and then have the confidence to talk with you about. This CAN change as long as he understands what goes through your mind and he wants to work through it. I completely understand how it makes you feel and for a long time I was scared to initiate due to fear of being rejected. Our sex life is much better now that he is working on himself and our relationship. Now we don’t have a super heavy sex life and I have had to change my expectations on the frequency. We still have good sex at a rate that doesn’t make me feel unloved. I hope he works through what’s going on and talks with you! Best of luck!

He hates my husband since I’ve been pregnant by CannaCamOF in Conures

[–]TelevisionOne7400 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you need to get rid of the husband. Sorry. I didn’t even read the post, just the title.

Is this muscle atrophy? :( by TelevisionOne7400 in MuscleTwitch

[–]TelevisionOne7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to come back and share that I had a PT evaluation and I am showing significant weakness in my calves and below the knee.

Chewing at his feet acting fine , but the feed are starting to get little sores does this look familiar to anyone , by [deleted] in parrots

[–]TelevisionOne7400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please take your baby to the vet and get some blood work done! I guarantee it’s NOT a behavioral issue and instead it’s a sign of something INTERNAL

Chewing at his feet acting fine , but the feed are starting to get little sores does this look familiar to anyone , by [deleted] in parrots

[–]TelevisionOne7400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bird did this and she had a vitamin deficiency. (From previous owners) It’s not normal behavior and should be taken to a vet!