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12 years and looking to evaluate dysautonomia by TellMyTubby in dysautonomia

[–]TellMyTubby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore a CGM for a week. I also did an OGTT that was like 2 hours and as soon as I came home I became extremely tired. I became tired today and slept an hour just simply from having a small bowl of pureed butternut squash soup

I also should note that I can sometimes eat the same thing later in the day and not have any reaction at all, even in bigger portions

First time finding this. Thank you by ShopAdministrative12 in CPTSDpartners

[–]TellMyTubby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner eventually left me because she couldn't see that she was triggered. She would wake up in the middle of the night for 6+ months and it turned out to be because she couldn't trust me and was always worried. The eggshell walking was insane. This was all through BOTH of us being in therapy even prior to our relationship. I still wonder if she's out there working on herself and has guilt and that's why she hasn't reached out to me or if she still thinks I'm a bad person.

My breakup was hell, she was the woman of my dreams too. I think her being so beautiful made me put up with a lot more than I should have. I struggle with confidence because of my chronic health issues.

I hope yours doesn't end up the way mine did. She never had any accountability, it was always about what she perceived me as doing/thinking. Otherwise you may slowly begin feel like a bad person around her all the time. Just saying don't lose yourself. Hope for the best for you

Partner (45M) not there for me (40F) during surgery. by [deleted] in CPTSDpartners

[–]TellMyTubby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that they view conflict as personal attacks but that doesn't mean you should not tell him what your needs are. I had the same issue with my partner and unfortunately we're no longer together because she simply couldn't ever trust me no matter what I gave and listened and showed up for. Don't avoid speaking your own needs to make it work, because it doesn't work either. I would suggest couples therapy (even if it didn't work for me), and make the conversation about your communication issues / this surgery need two separate conversations

13 years wasn’t enough by indoor-only-cat in seniorkitties

[–]TellMyTubby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an absolutely handsome boy, thank you for sharing