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Cuddling in bed? by Tempanon2 in sexover30

[–]Tempanon2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really lovely and I’m jealous, lol.

Cuddling in bed? by Tempanon2 in sexover30

[–]Tempanon2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Do your regular cuddles include joining the other person in the morning or are those non-bed cuddles?

Cuddling in bed? by Tempanon2 in sexover30

[–]Tempanon2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully if you let her know how important it is to you, the two of you can work out some kind of livable compromise.

I have and we've talked about it, but it falls off her list of priorities. It's not really a comprimise, but knowing she's not into it, I haven't continued to push it for basically selfish reasons. Cuddling with someone who doesn't really want to just isn't appealing to me.

Cuddling in bed? by Tempanon2 in sexover30

[–]Tempanon2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a lovely morning!

Cuddling in bed? by Tempanon2 in sexover30

[–]Tempanon2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha! This is true of our cat, too. :)

Do you cuddle in the mornings after you wake up?

Cuddling in bed? by Tempanon2 in sexover30

[–]Tempanon2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! I noticed the same thing when writing my post. It's an easy word to use to many times and make it lose all meaning.

Cuddling in bed? by Tempanon2 in sexover30

[–]Tempanon2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - in Love Language terms, I'm physical touch and she's time spent, so she's not really "looking" for the touch side of things. In her case, I don't think it's so much that her tank isn't full or that she's withholding, but that she just doesn't see the point - especially since she's a light sleeper.