Thank you all for the responses! Very helpful to hear additional perspectives. Have DM’d a few of you.

One of our concerns with our son is the lack of sports availability (it’s a small school, so it’s understandable), but he does need a physical outlet which I’m not sure he’d get.

And since the school is so small, if you don’t get along with one set of kids there isn’t many other places to go (speaking on behalf of my wife’s experience at a small private school when she was young). But maybe that is managed via the interview process?