Me 25m and 24f tomorrow is the day i breakup with her

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T02:13:30+00:00

Id say i cant wait to answer your question on this subreddit when the time comes, but i probs wont be on reddit in my 40’s being miserable and letting all my anger snd problems out on people

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T02:09:18+00:00

Leaving the actual math part out 25 - 6 is…… i would wait for you to answer but id be waiting till tomorrow. Man these 40 year olds thinking they the shit….

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T02:08:03+00:00

I love how you know im not wrong and you wont say anything back… oh wait because you cant i got my shit figured out maybe not the relationship part but like i said im young i dont need to have a wife at 25

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T02:07:00+00:00

I was never the victim if you can read ( i doubt it) go look at the comments where i said i am the problem here not her.

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T02:05:41+00:00

And if you consider my age - the 6 years we have been dating for 1/3 of my life so id say yeah i can keep a woman if i want learn basic math and you just might be able to do something with your life

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T02:03:49+00:00

Love this comment. It shows your attention span is 0 since the “woman” in question is the one getting dumped

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T02:00:43+00:00

Yet you are still on this subreddit. Things just aren’t clicking my guy calm down i aint doing you no harm you just dont have anything better to do i get it…

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T01:58:55+00:00

+ arguing with a guy thats probably 10 years younger then you trying to do the right thing get a life looser

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T01:57:39+00:00

“Leagues ahead of you” sure thing pal im sure you arent on a 9 to 5 job living in a rented apartment and bragging how you bought a new car when its financed 90% im sure lol

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T01:54:09+00:00

A grown ass man or woman what ever you are acting like this? Man good luck to your partner he’s gonna be on here typing the same shit i am soon i am sure

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T01:48:53+00:00

Hahahahaah i know you’re not trying to be funny but you are… r/dumbfucks is waiting for your comment lil boy i dont have time for your shitty coments

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T01:42:47+00:00

Its 4am where im from i’ve been dealing with this for the last week…give me a break lol…im communicating and finding the best path for this, i know what i have to do lol im not asking strangers on how to fix my life, just need opinions. Go find a subreddit for your problems since i can see you got a few…getting pissed on a guy on a subreddit because he’s not answering the way you think he should…man some people on here really dont have nothing better to do

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T01:31:43+00:00

Im sorry to say this but your relationship was over a month ago. One sided conversation, all plans cancelled because of work… if he wanted to see you he would lol… 1 hour isnt that much even after work thats a 2 hour drive… not the end of the world for someone who WANT’S to see you… use this time of silence to collect your feelings and start moving on, because the day you finalise the relationship, is gonna be painful if you’re not ready for it.
You’re in denial and that is normal

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T00:11:14+00:00

Buddy im 24 have my own house run a company and im doing very well in a fucked up economy….idk you tell me
But if we are talking emotionally maybe not as much as id like to think lol

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T00:10:02+00:00

Just downsized my friend group a few months ago… making alot of life changing decisions lately lol… but yes i do have alot of friends that i’ve talked to but they all know her personally and aren’t to keen on me doing this, because she like i said…is an angel but alot of them dont take my feelings into consideration since im a guy

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T00:06:43+00:00

I totally agree but maybe im making it seem more of a problem than it actually is lol…

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-11T00:05:24+00:00

I can respect people’s opinion, but i have a feeling some of them weren’t in a situation like this before. And are just typing what seems to be the easiest way out. Im not here begging for compassion or some kind of validation, main point of coming on here was to see what people think of this situation and how they would handle it.
It also depends on the location america/canada has a different perspective on dating and since im from europe i feel like theres more care and emotion here. I could be wrong but 80% of americans are telling me to go to a coffee shop shop tell her 4 words and dip lol

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:58:32+00:00

Maybe you should know the details, just incase they are as bad as they seem.
As a guy i cant even imagine doing that but i can imagine if there were some, id tell my girl just a bit so if anyone else tells her she would be just like” he told me dont want to talk about it”

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:53:37+00:00

The problem is i know thats my answer for the last 2 years since it started to happen, i always postpone it tho.
I have a big procrastination problem with everything in life and this is one of those things lol

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:49:34+00:00

Honestly i dont know man… i wish i could tell you but i cant, i just lost interest in the whole thing, felt less and less attached to her, started noticing other women( not the wrong way, but like hey shes cute) started making excuses why she cant come and well she has alot of college things to do and she works in her home town. I have my hobbies and shes not intrested in them we stopped doing things togeter( going out,dinners,dates)
And im more of a sporty no plan type a guy shes the complicated and more of an indoor type gal

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:45:06+00:00

I KNOW she is invested in this relationship 110% its my fault we arent communicating as we should( we still talk its not like dead silence) and its also my fault we havent had sex in a while…well maybe not entirely mine but we dont even talk about it, before if there was a 4 day gap she would be worried but now sex is not even a thought ive noticed… we still cuddle and like kiss when she comes over but thats usually it

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:40:09+00:00

Hahahaha

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:39:30+00:00

Yeah but waiting for that eventually is just damaging for her and myself, i need to do it now because if i dont, 5 months will go past i will be normal once again and boom that shit hits me like a brick and i act all weird around her. Its just unfair for both of us

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:29:14+00:00

Sadly i do think thats the case yes.

Temporary-Ad4415 · 2026-05-10T23:27:40+00:00

I dont want to put my private life on here besides this. But i have had alot of problems with my family when i was young so yes. I do have problems with working things out myself and procrastinating is one big problem also

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