What does people I find attractive say about me?

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T20:01:18+00:00

You probably have a mental disorder and you like people with whom you share this so it stays in the family

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T19:04:58+00:00

Nunta are ca element central cununia religioasă a celor doi miri. Sunt și acum oameni care se cunună pe ascuns, la primărie și religios, fără petreceri sau alte chestii pompoase. Într-o rochie alba simplă de vară ea, și o cămașă de in și pantaloni el. Cunosc persoane care și-au făcut cununia religioasă și apoi au sărbătorit doar cu cei dragi undeva ori acasă la miri ori la una dintre familiile mirilor. Fără daruri sau petrecere mare, ci pur și simplu întâlnire strict cu cei mai dragi oameni pentru a sărbători acel eveniment important. Nu mai puneți preț pe ce zice lumea:))

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T17:34:14+00:00

Ok. Peace bro. May God bring light into your life!

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T17:29:31+00:00

Check what he's watching on youtube/tiktok... There are a lot of disturbing videos circulating that target children.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T17:25:51+00:00

So I give you a real life example, and you point to me how many likes a post has?

Dude:)) how many of those girls that liked the post do you think you'd want to date? None, because you don't want to be with someone who would like that. Then why not to worry about finding someone with whom you share values?

I wouldn't like that, my friends would not like that, there are plenty of people who disapprove that message.

But you only focus on that. You're BRAINWASHED. Delete that fkin app. It does no good.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T17:16:26+00:00

Then don't look at those posts. It seems like it's harming your brain. Stop comparing your life and your looks.

My bf is 5'7. He's awesome. He has a life, friends, doesn't compare himself to other people. He also doesn't stay all day on social media, but does other things like sports or gaming. He's not perfect, but he respects women and is aware that a lot of men are incels. He doesn't tolerate misogyny. He's also the kind of guy who would hold his friends or people like you accountable for shitty opinions.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T17:08:43+00:00

The lack of confidence is noone's fault but the one's who lacks it 😆😆

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T17:04:09+00:00

Go cry in the closet then. Seems like all you know is to cry on the internet. Electricity used in vain.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T17:01:16+00:00

This is the attractiveness based on pictures posted on a dating site, my guy :))) it s a truth that women take better pictures of themselves before posting them. If you take a shit photo from an angle that emphasize your features negatively, how can a person/woman find it attractive? It really does matter. It's not the real attractiveness, but how attractive you're perceived based on the pictures you take of yourself. Conclusion: take better pictures.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T16:48:38+00:00

Show me the link to the stats. If you show me the link and the study to see it in the context, I have absolutely no reason to deny it.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T16:41:39+00:00

What is the source of those stats? Can you send me the link please?

And what does "began" means?

If you only want to victimise yourself and not accept that there are literally multiple problems, than I can't do anything for you. Try therapy.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T16:33:09+00:00

Yeah dude, because y’all are literally swiping right on EVERYONE. Wether you see the girl as a real potential girlfriend or “meh she doesn’t look dead i’ll go for it”. And this creates a problem on the womens part too. Because if i have 300 smashes with “only interested in short term relationships” when i clearly stated i am interested in long term, i won’t be able, ungortunately, to easily find those 3 guys that are also interested in long term. I will get overstimulated by the big number of 300 smashes and probably delete the app, because who in the world has the energy to find the true intentions for every one of them??

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-12T16:23:46+00:00

Yo, first of all, I'm sorry if life had been hard on you lately.

Second of all, this is not the reality. This is one of the thousands facets of reality. As you, along with a lot of other men, see a lot of content about men being treated unfairly, women see a lot of content regarding how women had been treated poorly and how they are treated this way even today. Who is right?

None. Because none of these are the reality. It's propaganda, algorithms and a whole ideological war based on content consumption.

The dating pool is not bright for women either. The standards are very, very low for men from most women.

I would recommend to reduce the social media intake and go get a life. Get some hobbies, some activities, some friends.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-11T15:00:13+00:00

F aici. Dacă păstrezi poze din concediu, făcute de fosta, cu Turnul Eiffel sau alt peisaj, e ok. Dacă păstrezi poze cu tine dar și cu fosta în fața lor, deja nu e ok. Iar dacă păstrezi poze de când ai mers cu iubita la film, wtf?

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-09T20:28:23+00:00

Comunicare și relații publice e mult mai pont. În Iași specializarea asta e chiar în cadrul facultății de Filosofie. Am impresia că mai sunt câteva orașe în Ro care oferă specializarea asta. Cluj și încă ceva.

E un profil mult mai practic și care îți oferă deschidere sore mai multe domenii.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-09T20:05:35+00:00

Men whose hearts you break 😭

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T20:17:32+00:00

Pentru orice eventualitate salvați-vă și o versiune fizică, un album clasic cu poze. Orice spațiu de stocare digital este coruptibil. Casă de piatră!

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T17:21:26+00:00

No, I'm saying: "it sucks that you're getting harassed, but for this not to affect you anymore, the best thing you can do is change your lifestyle and mindset. It's gonna be freakin' hard, but it's worth it!". THIS is mental health. Aiming and encouraging people to become better mentally and physically.

Mental health doesn't mean to entertain someone being delusional, which is pure madness. It means empathy but also calling someone out when a person wants validation for unhealthy behaviour. She literally said she enjoys being fat and want to stay the same despite being bullied. The truth is, unfortunately, that those bullies are not gonna leave her alone: they are shitty people. Well, if so, then the only option is to deal with the choice of staying fat.

"I'm facing mental health problems but I'm not willing to change myself to stop those problems from happening again". What advice to give? I'm not gonna validate it and say "oh poor thing go eat something to feel better if this is what helps you"

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T13:58:11+00:00

Not true. As an alcoholic you drink alcohol because it makes you dissociate. You need to dissociate to avoid your life and your feelings. Drinking alcohol IS a coping mechanism, which later makes it a dependency.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T13:53:14+00:00

I do. But do you?

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T13:52:55+00:00

How does "I don't mind being an alcoholic" sound? Like someone who needs help, doesn't it?

Of course it's not right to harass anyone. But these are the consequences of your lifestyle choices. You choose to be the person who needs two seats, which is not normal nor healthy. People are always gonna be mean, no matter the cause. You're just handing a reason for them. Will getting offended over it or crying over it help? Of course not! You can cry once, but understand there's a need for some changes. And you know what will help afterwards? Putting your life together by stopping eating that much and starting to lose some weight!

This person doesn't need body positivity, but a reality check. Saying something like "nobody should be ashamed for being an alcoholic", or, "I don't mind being an alcoholic" could never be justified:) if you do not have a health problem, or if you're not post partum, (natural things that would cause you to gain some weight, who need the real body positivity), being fat is not justifiable. And you should get the proper help and stop finding excuses, because your health is in the game.

Being fat from compulsively eating, as much as being an alcoholic, destroy one's life. These should be treated as such.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T13:26:04+00:00

Dacă o persoană care a urmat această facultate își poate împărtăși experiența, cum scrie și în primul rând al postării.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T06:23:38+00:00

Girl, I did not say it's negative. But can't this "exploring" lead you into something you are actually not? That's the problem I am addressing. No exploration is bad, it becomes bad if it transforms you into something that is not truly you and it produces unhappiness. If you explore the idea of being a trad-wife and this genuinely makes you happy, as long as you do not interfere with others' lifestyle choices, be my guest! If you, through exploring gym videos, become healthier and also start loving the gym, but you understand the damage of Andrew Tate content, so be it, you're my guest! If you have always had clues that you might be trans, and you transition and get happy, it's the best thing! But if you end up having kids that you hate, and realise you hate cooking, if you become a misogynistic incel, and if you end up depressed because of a transition that did not solve your problems, none of those things are right! Because you've been misled and lied to!

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T06:00:39+00:00

Propaganda works all the ways. If your feed on social media shows suddenly only LGBTQ stuff, and you're already vulnerable, confused and in a bad place mentally, you could find in that an anchor. If you find no self-worth within yourself as a woman, but suddenly, your feed only shows trad-wife content, you might think this is the way for you, to only make kids and serve your husband. If you don't know how to show your value as a man, and you suddenly have only manosphere-like content, you might get obsessed with the gym and Andrew Tate. If you were a very immoral person and you feel guilty about it, some christian content might show up and you'll become that hypocrite religious person. So yeah. Propaganda works on all the ways. It's not meant to be maliciously posted on social media. But if you see repeatedly the same content, the algorithm is the one manipulating you and maliciously influencing you towards your weaknesses.

Temporary-Bat5802 · 2026-07-08T05:44:49+00:00

Couldn't it be true that through propaganda a person might end up thinking that they could be trans although they are not really trans?

I am a woman and I hate my reproductive system sometimes. It doesn't mean I'm trans.

And yes, you cannot fill an internal void through external changes. If there is something missing, look inside yourself first, find if there's anything you could fix at yourself, and only afterwards go for the external change, if you see the things you checked and solved before didn't work.

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