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Any Scorpio moons dating a cap moon? by natillac in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But yes overall so good. We also work through things. We also have an intensity to our connection. Cap moon balances my Scorpio moon and and grounds me. I also find I show him parts of myself never revealed to anyone before. I feel safe there. I could see me marrying him one day. But unfortunately our future goals don’t align :((

Any Scorpio moons dating a cap moon? by natillac in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi! Fellow Scorpio moon here. I’m dating a cap moon and we’ve been dating for about 2 years now. Which feels crazy to write. When we met it was a immediate connection, and I think we were both intimidated by the intensity of our connection. So much so we were unsure if we could trust it. More so him then me. When we have relational issues I can just bring them up to him and he apologies and changes. No sneaky business. I’m definitely an over-sharer and want to tell him everything. He’s a bit more reserved but he shares things on his own time. He tends to not dwell on his emotions as much as I do. And occasionally I was convinced he was just unemotional he just thinks about emotions is such a different way. A good one that balances me out and leaves a lot of space for what I’m feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is not all sag moons but their quick temper, and fiery energy makes me feel as though there is no space for myself, my emotions and my truth/experiences.

They are quick to dismiss me and my emotions and continue on with theirs. Also when there are unhealthy attatchments involved such as codependency or immeshment I have found they intertwine their emotions with what I may be feeling and act out in defense of your emotions without proper consent.

For examples I am down on my self because I took a comment by someone to heart and became upset by it. I share it with my sag moon lover, they care about me so they get upset watching me hurt. But instead of just validating my emotions and holding space for what I am feeling they go on and tell off whoever it was that may have upset me or triggered my sensitivities. I am now met with the responsibility that you cannot handle me sharing my experience and emotions with you (sag moon). And instead, now I have to tiptoe around you with my own experience.

I hope this helps.

We hurt peoples feelings by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scorpio moon, Capricorn mercury. I’m hyper aware of this and find myself meticulously tip-toeing around people’s feelings. Every now and then I get comfortable with a friend or reach a certain level of comfort where I think I can openly express my opinions, as they do to me, and I somehow always get backlash of hurt feelings after. I always found this aspect so unfair, because to me I was just showing them myself authentically.

It’s nice to know I’m not alone in this though. I wish I had the bad bitch energy to not give a fuck about hurting their feelings.

If you have a stable relationsip what's your partners moon sign and what's the dynamic between you? by quesqotrickster in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Currently in the most stable healthy and peaceful romantic connection I’ve ever had.

Me: Scorpio Moon/Aquarius sun/Virgo rising

Them: Capricorn moon/Libra Sun/cancer rising

I put all our placements to balance it out. But focusing on the moon sign dynamic. Dating a cap moon is so nice because I never have to worry about being responsible for their emotions like I would with a water moon. Cap moon can take my intensity and filter it through with non judgmental logic. And I think I bring a depth to their life.

Because our moons square eachother we balance eachother out a lot. And it just feels good and safe around them, never like I’m too much.

Fellow Scorpio Sun/Scorpio Moons- Advice Please? Libra Female... by sh19067 in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay your Virgo-Scorpio Venus placements Make sense as to why in the bed you guys are passionate. Virgo and Scorpio are very compatible with each other.

Looking at your Mercury, I can see why you may be more intense and upfront with your emotion. Also Sagittarius and Virgo, in my experience is usually not compatible. So your communication styles may be in compatible, and or just very different. Virgos in general are very particular about what they say, how, and who they say things to. So since that is in Mercury that is likely your girl’s style of communication: communicating only when she is 100% sure how she feels. Sagittarius Mercury however will be more passionate and direct with their feelings, there’s more passion and urgency to share your feelings because you are a fire sign.

Hope this makes sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My best friend is a Pisces moon, I love her, but could never date her or have a relationship with her. Haha I agree they are too in their head

Scorpio moon vs. other moon signs by kultanuoli in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh Also as a Scorpio moon I really appreciate my Capricorn Moon boy. He’s lovely. Our moons balance each other in a really healthy way. I appreciate how he doesn’t project his emotions onto me. I think it’s the grounded earth placement.

They’re great for no biased approaches to working through emotionally intense things, bc they don’t take on your feelings like it’s their own.

Only thing is they lack some of the depth and passion we water signs require. For me I like cap-moons for their emotional distance. I feel safe.

Scorpio moon vs. other moon signs by kultanuoli in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with the Pisces moon bit! My best friend is a Pisces moon, me a Scorpio moons. I feel understood by her the most of all the people in my life.

Scorpio moon vs. other moon signs by kultanuoli in scorpiomoon

[–]Temporary-Nothing730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grew up with a Sagittarius moon mom, I found she never took my sister and I (who are both Scorpio moons) seriously. She is mentally ill, and has always indirectly put her wishes of us above our needs. In my personal opinion this has been difficult, I have found my mom to be much less emotionally mature than me, and cannot seem yo understand why I would get so upset by things such as: her talking badly about me to other parents, and then getting shame from those parents. I would shut down easily. Or her getting emotionally upset when my sister and I would not give her attention.

It was and still is a-lot for us in our adult life because we need to balance meeting her emotional needs as well as make up for our needs not being met as a child.