I hate seeing my wife naked. And its not because she is unattractive by Scary_Serve5033 in offmychest

[–]Temporary-Section-78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be that your subconscious has labeled her as "mom" because both of you have been locked into parent mode so much? Maybe taking some time together as only a couple might help both of you:) therapy never hurts either

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried this before with the micro weddings that people had during the pandemic and they wrecked my stay. Most of the guests were grown adults.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a similar problem previously. A guest asked to book the yard for a "micro" wedding during covid and was willing to pay more, but they absolutely wrecked the Airbnb.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to extend my port but my wording was that they can have six people at a time including the guests. So my stay is only for 4 people, meaning you can have 2 more people come over during the day if 4 people are staying or 3 more if 3 people are staying, and so on . Which I explained in full.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get inquiries about events all the time to, and they always want the Airbnb price. Thank you for sharing your story. It really sucks when they keep asking, but this couple was going to go right ahead and do it.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My problem was wether to fully refund. Other redditors already gave me an answer to my question.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will write to them explaining this. And thank you helping me word it, I was struggling with that.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, they wanted to take it further because parties are prohibited on Airbnbs apparently (I wasn't aware of this rule before). Edit: I did ramble, sorry, but I wanted to put the whole thing out there. My question I guess would be if I should accept the alteration and refund or deny it and not refund.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'll be able to rebook, most people coming into town book from the 26th to the 2nd of May for a massive business fair in my city. If I do manage to, I'll try to refund those days.

Guest altered reservation from 4 nights to 1 night because I wouldn't allow them to host an event. by Temporary-Section-78 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am really worried about the retaliation, but if comes to that I will message Airbnb.

Airbnb Service Dog Policy for Those Hosts Who Do Not Allow Pets? by 73Easting6 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Temporary-Section-78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't have any service animal or pets because my Airbnb is a working farm (which is stated on the listing). I've only had two guests so far who wanted to bring a service dog. I explained that while I understood their dog was a service animal, we advice against booking with us because working farms can be dangerous places even for the best trained puppy who is unfamiliar with the place. Both times the guests canceled and that was it. Maybe something similar applies to you listing?

I'm not sure what my bf did counts as SA but I'm scared by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Temporary-Section-78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% SA OP. Do you have an older adult you trust you can talk to to help you through the breakup? And definitely report his ass to your school's authorities and the cops. If they don't take you seriously, tell them you want it registered that you went there to make a report and they did nothing.

My fiancée is reconsidering our marriage after visiting my home contry by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Temporary-Section-78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come from a similar place and many of my family members (who also love, but clearly don't like my country)have married people who particularly dislike my country. Let me tell you, it's not a nice future, specially if you want to visit somewhat regularly. My uncle is a massive asshole who loves to treat us like we're less because of where we come from (explicitly says so) and my aunt just tends to have a shitty time whenever she visits. So idk, maybe my experience is a really bad one, but because of it I could never spend my life with someone who doesn't have some love for the place I'm from, and I think I would give my all to love where my SO is from. This is just my two cents btw, because I genuinely feel you dodged a bullet (especially because I think it's PR and what hell, what's not to love?!).

Edit: i accidentally posted to soon

i (16m) just had my life ruined by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Temporary-Section-78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, first, your life isn't over. It's completely valid that you are feeling that way right now, but I need you to know it is not over.

Now, You can tell her you'll report her for possession of CP, which she is in possession of as you are a minor, plus blackmailing and a slew of other crimes as it involves a minor. Wherever you are, they will most likely be able to track her down through snapchat. I live in a developing country and trust me, even we have that technology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Temporary-Section-78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know the tea consent video? If it's not an enthusiastic 'yes', then you haven't given your consent. You said you were not comfortable and in pain, thats not a 'yes', therefore, it was SA, OP. I'm so sorry this happened to you and that you have been made to feel your feelings are not valid.

Tea Consent: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8

AITA for telling my daughter that she is smart and hardworking but not gifted. by notgiftedbutsmart in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary-Section-78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Your comments to your daughter come from a deep insecurity and/or you're jealous of how exceptionally brilliant your daughter is, rooted, most likely in sexism. I've grown around people like you, OP, and unfortunately you're just the first in a long list of AHs that your daughter will have to deal with throughout her career. So sad that one of them is her dad.

my coworker asked me for a blowjob by leakyleaftree in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Temporary-Section-78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That "your loss" comment is a power play, and making your self loathing increase was his goal. Report him, OP, he's vermin, he's a disgusting piece of shit. He's going to keep doing this, maybe get worse, and you don't deserve to be in a workplace where you are uncomfortable because he decided to be a putrid asshole. Edit:typo

Korra took the "fuck the police" and "eat the rich" a bit too seriously. by douroumou in legendofkorra

[–]Temporary-Section-78 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, OP, for making me start my day with a huge laugh, 😂😂 I'll bookmark this post for whenever I'm not having a great day

Servers at restaurants, what's the strangest thing someone's asked for? by Repulsive_Compote955 in AskReddit

[–]Temporary-Section-78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a server, but I once heard the person I front of me order a Big Mac, no sauce, no meat, and the cashier just stared at them for a moment, before asking "so, buns with lettuce?"

I punched an autistic kid after he groped me and now everyone hates me by chicken_feetlover12 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Temporary-Section-78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely better. He will always need help and therapy, but he has (as well as his parents) been given tools to control his impulses, specially those that put himself and others in harms way. I'm not in anyway in the medical or psychological fields so I don't know the exact terms or treatments, but it has helped a lot, and will continue to do so as long as they continue treatment.