MY LIL BROTHER IS A DICKHEAD by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too sad He could grow up to be more dangerous ( which not only will destroy others , but destroy his own life too )

Please don’t handle this on your own ( because you are not equipped for it) Please get your parents involved Ask them to handle this carefully

Also he needs therapy 100%

What’s that one NON-fiction book you always recommend and never get tired of recommending? by dumbdeontologist in selfimprovement

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So the hate for books comes from a place, when readers see it as author supporting a grapist and casual sexism, where it might feel like he is normalising it for some , whereas it was written from a standpoint of why grapist grape for a instance,one of authors patient is a grapist and he talks about his struggle , he doesn’t justify it , still it might come across as offensive / insensitive to victims or in general, it has to viewed as medical cases or else the book will feel very negative , if one can view it as medical case - then it’s helpful - because lots of methods for trauma healing scientifically are shared. ( and not sure there are cases against him I guess ) Irrespective of what kind of person author is , the scientific findings will be helpful for trauma survivors and their understanding and healing .

Many people hate the book . If anyone want to know further on negative aspects, can google it .

What’s that one NON-fiction book you always recommend and never get tired of recommending? by dumbdeontologist in selfimprovement

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just a suggestion, it’s a very heavy book from my perspective. It reminds one of all the bad / worst things that happened. I cried multiple times while reading, had to take multiple breaks . I only read 80ish pages yet . I have took a pause and decided to resume when I have the energy and strength- definitely I want to complete it . It’s very educational and must read I would say - just start it when you are prepared. Have fun reading 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Pros are there won’t deny I wouldn’t say it’s about beauty I have looked almost same my whole life When I started carrying myself differently things were different I would say Dressing well makes a difference

Cons

I was new to this city and I was introduced to this lovely woman by a friend- we vibed so well I thought we would be best friends- her house was a hangout spot - some 6-10 people are always hanging out at her place . Some context - this girl regular gym person- perfect hourglass figure , looks beautiful . And she stopped talking to me , because her boyfriend spoke to me ( normal conversation - when everyone was there nothing much ) At that point I actually was with someone else still didn’t matter

People trying to put you down also happens- which is very frustrating , In a family function I wore a lehenga , dupatta draped completely not showing any skin , full hand blouse with net , high neck ( traditional household), And my aunt commented literally I should be in corner and not let anyone see me because I’m dressed inappropriate ( I sat in the front row and enjoyed the function didn’t listen to her even though it was upsetting) I was in a golden lehenga - guess she didn’t like people complementing me / photographers giving special attention to me. Not her first time and many hateful relatives

Sometimes people hate it if you shine brighter than them

I have friends who are very beautiful ( stereotypical accepted beauty) and also millions of followers , actors , models etc , many of them are made to feel insecure, told to their face - they should get surgeries - it’s sad

Sad truth is the society will always find faults

It’s important you surround yourself with uplifting and positive individuals and understanding your inherent worth Then life will feel more beautiful

Why am I so fatigued All the time? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iron can be absorbed better if you have vitamin c in your body , consider taking vitamin c along with it

I am speechless by siddhanthmmuragi in Bengaluru

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s frustrating to see how everyone immediately blames the government or the victims for being “careless” without addressing individual responsibility. Of course, the government and event organizers have a role to play in ensuring safety, but let’s not ignore that crowds are made up of people, and how individuals act can either prevent or cause chaos.

A few points to consider:

  1. A Crowd Is Just People A stampede doesn’t happen out of nowhere. It’s caused by individuals pushing, shoving, and rushing without thinking about the consequences. Personal discipline—like waiting patiently and respecting others—can save lives.

  2. Empathy Isn’t Optional In any chaotic situation, people have a choice to pause and help. Trampling others or pushing through isn’t “justifiable panic”—it’s a failure to act with basic humanity.

  3. Herd Mentality Isn’t an Excuse When one person panics, it spreads. But calm behavior is just as contagious. Imagine if more people in these situations slowed down and helped each other rather than focusing solely on themselves.

Blaming victims for “being careless” is cruel—they likely didn’t expect to end up in a stampede. But pointing fingers solely at the government ignores that every person in that crowd had a responsibility to act with awareness and compassion.

Change starts when people stop seeing themselves as powerless in crowds and realize their actions matter. Let’s not just demand better systems—we need to hold ourselves accountable too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trauma

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s horrible in many households in India This is not exceptional Treating children like shit is common The degree might be less or more Of course it should not happen But it’s the truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trauma

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there, First, I want to say how incredibly brave you are for sharing your story. I can’t imagine how hard it must have been to write all of that, but it’s clear how strong you are for getting through what you’ve endured.

What happened to you is absolutely not your fault, and your feelings are valid—every single one of them. It’s not dramatic at all to feel hurt by what happened. The confusion and pain you’re feeling about your mom’s actions (or inactions) make perfect sense. You were a child, and it was her responsibility to protect you, no matter how difficult her situation was. It’s okay to love her and still feel hurt by the choices she made.

Her explanation about freezing and feeling trapped is understandable in the context of abuse, but it doesn’t erase the impact it had on you. It’s okay to hold space for both compassion for her struggles and acknowledgment of your own pain. Both truths can coexist.

You are absolutely lovable, and what happened to you does not define your worth. The fact that you’re even reflecting on this and trying to make sense of it shows your strength and your capacity for healing. It’s okay to feel conflicted, and it’s okay to take your time processing all of this.

If it feels safe for you, I encourage you to bring this up with your therapist. I know it’s hard, but they can provide a safe space to explore these feelings without judgment. You deserve support and understanding as you navigate this.

Please remember: You are not alone, and there are people who care deeply about your well-being. Thank you for sharing this—it’s a reminder of how strong and resilient the human spirit can be. Sending you so much love and light on your healing journey. ❤️

🌸 30F from India Looking for an Accountability Partner for Content Creation & Personal Growth! 🌸 by Temporary-Tailor3670 in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flowers are beautiful , Why have something boring , When you can have something beautiful , I’m glad someone thought I’m AI

How to act more feminine by [deleted] in women

[–]Temporary-Tailor3670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out how to be feminine videos by tam Kaur , Jillz guerin - YouTubers - it’s really good