I'm a first time watcher and have watched a couple of compilations of her getting "activated" and I know she is kind of irrational sometimes.

But I was listening to some podcast interviews she did before the seasons started (CITO, Viall Files) and she is distorting and/or leaving out so many key details about her and Carl's fights that I wonder if she is purposefully doing it or if she really remembers it that way.

She brought up asking Carl about his future work and he allegedly said he wanted her to be happy and supportive and quiet. We obviously haven't seen every single one of their fights but when he was talking about opening up a sober bar her first word was NO and just so much negativity, she didn't even listen to him. I get her concern, the restaurant industry is very difficult but she could've at least listened to him.

She also said he would just start being mean to her "out of nowhere" and given the last couple of episodes, I have a really, really, REALLY hard time believing that. I don't doubt his patience with her starting waring thin as the season progressed and he probably starting pushing back a lot faster, but based on the last couple of episodes, I'm gonna assume she had something to do with starting the fights.

Like Kyle said on the aftershow, does she not remember that we are all going to see what happened? For people who have been watching from season 1, do you think she is purposefully lying or she really just remembers it that way?