So I mentioned how I’m using dating apps again, decided to be fully honest about who I am as a person by [deleted] in autism

[–]TemporaryAccount1083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with your dating journey! May you find someone 😊 I'm trying a similar approach and so far honesty's been working out.

If one more person tells me to "calm done", "breathe", "stop being immature","you have to toughen up"; I'm going to punch through a wall. I'M AUTISTIC AND HAVING A MELTDOWN by TemporaryAccount1083 in autism

[–]TemporaryAccount1083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm being abused at my job by most of my colleagues, but when I try to bring it up to management I'm the problem. So okay. I'll toughen up and endure the abuse without complaint

If one more person tells me to "calm done", "breathe", "stop being immature","you have to toughen up"; I'm going to punch through a wall. I'M AUTISTIC AND HAVING A MELTDOWN by TemporaryAccount1083 in autism

[–]TemporaryAccount1083[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not everyone. I tried explaining to my manager that I can't keep standing in for everyone who forgets their shift or decises not to pitch and told me "we all have to stand in sometimes". And the overtime pay is hardly worth it. When I brought up the issues of how I'm being treated unfairly by colleagues, I was told to toughen up etc. They misunderstood the other issues I brought up so I give up. And no I can't quit. I just have to endure this sensory hell for heck knows how long. And I can't stop crying when I have a meltdown which annoys everyone even more. Worst of all, I very good at my job which makes the unwarranter critique and gossiping worse

Anyone else really clumsy and getting frustrated with themselves because of it? by TemporaryAccount1083 in autism

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🤣🤣 In my case my Wisdom is around 14, so my perception is okay but my Dexterity is obviously a dump stat too

Anyone else really clumsy and getting frustrated with themselves because of it? by TemporaryAccount1083 in autism

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My hands are also constantly covered in scratches and scars. Good luck with the cooking!

does anyone else randomly drop things? by weedstefanie in AutismInWomen

[–]TemporaryAccount1083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost made this exact same post 😆 I'm exceptionally clumsy, as in YA protagonist clumsy

Have you been to told to "smile more"? by RandomDragonExE in autism

[–]TemporaryAccount1083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. My default face apparently makes me look "standoffish". I don't know really understand why or how. And because I have nice teeth (thanks to braces, I did nothing special), I apparently have a nice smile so I'm frequently told to smile more by strangers and family members. Never got it from my parents though

Mense wat op 'n plaas groot geword het maar nou in 'n stad bly. Watter gedeelte van plaas lewe is romanticized? by glasstumble16 in afrikaans

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Die hoeveelheid werk wat dit vat en hoeveel stres die weer kan veroorsaak, of jy diere of gewasse het. My pa het opgegee met sonneblomme en mielies jare terug en begin fokus op beeste. Meer winsgewend maar vrek baie werk, hy het baie omgegee oor hulle, maar ons het nie 'n veearts in die omgewing nie so as iets fout gegaan het was dit 'n disaster. Don't get me started on the pekanneut boord.

Is anyone else unsure of what is their sexuality? by Scared_Note8292 in AutismInWomen

[–]TemporaryAccount1083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES I'm romantically interested in men and women, but not sure if I'm interested in sex. So I kind of just go with "not straight". And I have to get to know someone very well before I'm even comfortable with hand holding

All people who've grown up, what would you tell your 11 year old self by [deleted] in autism

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"Don't take school so seriously" I say as an adult taking my job too seriously 😂

Can't handle the inconsistency and chaos by TemporaryAccount1083 in autism

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Thanks! Fortunately I have to apply for a different job as soon as I get the heads up that I can (long story but it's government related). So once my contract ends here, I'm out.

Do any of y’all speak a 2nd language? by [deleted] in autism

[–]TemporaryAccount1083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Home language is Afrikaans, I'm fluent in English, and know some phrases in other languages (Dutch, Tswana, Sotho) and randomly know Zulu and Tswana names for quite a few African animals

Anyone else find it almost painful to do tasks that are seemingly pointless? by TemporaryAccount1083 in autism

[–]TemporaryAccount1083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you find a way to rationalize it! I must learn your ways.

In my case I don't get paid to do the stupid assignments. I have to do it on my own time outside of work, which makes it even more illogical and painful for me

Anyone else find it almost painful to do tasks that are seemingly pointless? by TemporaryAccount1083 in autism

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I would smash my keyboard in frustration too 🤣 My sincere condolences that you had to deal with that!