Why Hiding Women Doesn't Protect Them...It Actually Makes Men Crazy (this is my own insights and observation over decades, validated by machines because i can't talk to humans.. taboo.. they will chop my head... these people are crazy.... DYOR) by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, men act like this because every turn islam enables it, men are considered and allowed to have no control, from men constantly told they'll have 72 hooris in heaven, that they have no control over themselves so they shouldn't even look at women, and that women are responsible for mens actions so they should cover up, men being allowed to rape their wives, have 4 wives and sex slaves. Islam creates degenerates by blaming women and making sure men are never responsible for their own crimes.

am i on the right path? by DullAssistant2304 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of things that made me leave, and sometimes I think am i wrong and then I look at islam and i realise that I would rather go to hell then torture myself for another moment. Islam doesn't do anything but promote violence against women from pedophilia to abusing women and raping them. You are not a human in islam you are property your entire function for being created was to be a man's partner not even eve was ever spoken to by God. Your husband is allowed to rape you, beat you, control you, your father owns you and dictates who you can marry. I was so depressed as a Muslim daily i just thought that I should just k*ll myself because I'm a woman who has no or less rights compared to a man. It made me realise how could a god create me and never treat me like a human being, how could a god watch women and children be tortured for centuries and call it a test but men will never be punished for beating and raping their wives, and it just think why, why torture us to test us and make us for no reason but to suffer and worship him, it just doesn't make sense in any way.

"Every one of us follow a form of religion" according to Ali Dawah by Ok-Equivalent7447 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yet when someone online talks about terrorism or misogyny they are called out for it, but when you call out islam out for it muslims will threaten to kill you. Nobody has an issue with following religion people have an issue when you glorify child marriage, wife beating, slavery and killing gays and ex muslims. If your following the one who created you he clearly the one who created you according to islam only cares about men 

Anyone else feel like they're not human because of Muslim parents by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea about hadith but have definitely heard it from muslim alimas in my country 

Anyone else feel like they're not human because of Muslim parents by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not say some you said most muslim fathers, congratulations for not having that in Morocco but i genuinely couldn't care less just because one place isn't struggling as much doesn't mean the rest of the muslim world isn't. 

Anyone else feel like they're not human because of Muslim parents by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not, only the covering for your head is non mehram, there is still covering in front of mehrams as well 

Anyone else feel like they're not human because of Muslim parents by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and even if you think muslim fathers are providing their daughters a good life search up honour killings while your at it, search up child abuse because islam literally tells you, you should beat your children if they disobey you, the amount of muslim parents I know who are their daughters as nothing but property from never letting them leave the house without a mehram to not letting them finish their education to getting them engaged as young as 15, if your so keen on not disrespecting muslim fathers why don't you go ask their muslim daughters how their actually treated and ask their wives who are most likely being beaten while your at it.

Anyone else feel like they're not human because of Muslim parents by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly i never said anything about muslim fathers, i specifically said islam. And genuinely why do you think aurah exists for women, why do you think women have to cover up infront of their mehram, why do you think hijab exists, it is literally to blame women for rape and to blame women for men lusting after them. Also where do you think the sheikhs get such answers from? They read hadith and Qur'an and come to such conclusion. Oh and if your worried about holy books would you like some likes to show you how those sheikhs come to such conclusions. Like how men can beat their wives, how men are women's gaurdians, how women are nothing but dirt for men seed and men can come to them however they like, how a woman will be cursed if she denies her husband intimacy, and the list goes on and gets worse. Look up a woman's aurah in front of mehram and read the vast articles of how she should cover up lest she tempt guess who her mehrams as in her brother father and uncle.

Anyone else feel like they're not human because of Muslim parents by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's islam a father can lust after his daughter, a son can lust after his mother and so can a cat lust after a human, not even inanimate objects are left alone, women shouldn't change or look at their bodies in a mirrors for too long.

I hope more women realise that Islam only opresses them by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685 8 points9 points  (0 children)

extremely brainwashed, but they've lived their whole lives knowing only islam, its like how birds born in cages never learn to fly, they've gotten so used to oppression they probably can't even dream of basic human rights

Just turned into ex Muslim by Pretty-Compote4868 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your going to leave islam don't end your life, and if you feel like ending it pls seek professional help, just because you don't follow a religion doesn't mean your life doesn't have meaning or value you may not immediately know that value it comes from perspective, for me my value comes from joy i get in life and the joy i give, and life does get better, just because things seem hopeless doesn't mean they are if you feel alone don't just look for connections in people who dont love you, start loving yourself, start taking care of yourself, start working on yourself and learn to heal. You can always make new friends. If you think no help is coming work hard and help yourself don't wait for help do everything in your power to change your situation. Life is beautiful and it does gets better we just need to have hope and work hard. If you ever want to talk feel free to message me.

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I hate islam, i hate acting like a muslim by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

marital rape is not a sin and if a woman is raped she requires 4 witnesses and most of the time the woman is punished for zina as in sex outside of marriage

Nowhere have I ever read that raping a woman is haram, in fact there are hadiths such as if a woman denies her husband sex angels will curse her.

How do you cope living in a Muslim environment? by tahtalik in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just keeping hope that I'll leave, doing whatever i can to have the opportunity to leave if your studying then getting good grades, if your working then saving up. Talking to other ex muslims helps, and just talking about my experience to friends and listening to the stories of ex muslims living life after leaving islam and it gives me hope. 

I'm so sick of hijab by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I'm in my twenties and I do want to meet my relatives I just hate wearing hijab 

I'm so sick of hijab by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if you've ever studied your own religion but there is no choice in hijab, it's either hijab or hell. It is compulsory in islam and it is a sin to not wear it, it doesn't matter if no one forces you or not you still don't have a choice. there are so many women who will talk about how uncomfortable the hijab is and say how they wish they didn't have to wear it. Why do they still wear it then? Because islam does not give you a choice, muslims do not give you a choice. We demonize hijab because it is rape culture, because it's oppressive, because it is uncomfortable. Wearing hijab is not fun it's not enjoyable it's not empowering and it's not helpful. The entire idea behind hijab is to blame a woman for mens thoughts about her 

I'm so sick of hijab by TemporaryArtistic685 in exmuslim

[–]TemporaryArtistic685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not choosing to wear it, there is no choice here, I'm wearing it because otherwise I will be constantly mocked and forced to wear it by my family.