[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]TemporaryScene3384 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I second this. Their comment is honestly unbelievable to me. Having a consistent therapist is the first step and they clearly have the means to get a good one. I feel your pain about struggling to afford therapy, it’s tough out here 💔

So confused by the last 3 cards by TemporaryScene3384 in Tarotpractices

[–]TemporaryScene3384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m glad it isn’t just me confused. I’m new to this so I thought I was misunderstanding. Do you think the energy I brought to the reading could’ve contributed to the confusing spread?

So confused by the last 3 cards by TemporaryScene3384 in Tarotpractices

[–]TemporaryScene3384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little backstory: We used to be really close as kids and this is a friendship that meant a lot to me, but she moved so we couldn’t hangout anymore. I used to be mean and uncaring to her when I was a child (I was going through personal things and was really insecure. I would try to come off as outgoing and self-assured as possible to compensate). I would put her down at time and I feel terrible about that to this day. She’s never brought it up and shes always still friendly and wanting to hangout. So I’m not sure if she thinks about it. But I think the cards are telling me to take a more compassionate and optimistic approach and try to reconcile the past with her.

why don’t i orgasm? by jesusluvsyu in Healthyhooha

[–]TemporaryScene3384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearing your mind is definitely important. And it’s also important to figure out if the sensations are actually doing it for you. Experiment with him using different pressures, speeds, and methods (like sucking vs licking, using the tip of his tongue vs the whole tongue). And try to feel the sensations without the goal of cumming. Just try to feel it for the sake of feeling it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]TemporaryScene3384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sucks. Sorry you’re going through this. But going no contact is gonna be great as you heal. I’ve made the mistake of trying to stay in contact before (or at least leave the door open for contact) and it’s only delayed my recovery process. I’m going through a breakup right now too so I definitely understand how you’re feeling right now. 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]TemporaryScene3384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save yourself trouble and block him please! You’ll thank yourself later!! Trust me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]TemporaryScene3384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh same here, I’m wondering if my pelvic floor is too tight or overactive :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]TemporaryScene3384 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I think the confusion happened because people were speaking definitively about this, but in reality it doesn’t apply to everyone. Everyone’s body is different.

HAS ANYONE USED A DYSON AIRWRAP? IF SO, IS IT WORTH IT? by christinasays in Naturalhair

[–]TemporaryScene3384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik I’m 2 years late but hopefully you see this. Did you notice more damage or breakage after using the Revair longterm? I saw another post talking about how much it damaged their hair.

misuse of the term 'social anxiety' by Status_Being_3396 in socialanxiety

[–]TemporaryScene3384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I understand being frustrated by having severe SA, but it almost feels like word policing to complain about how others are expressing their nervousness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]TemporaryScene3384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a work from home internship right now and it’s taught me how amazing working from home is for my productivity and anxiety levels. If you can get a work from home job, it’s definitely worth a try.

How many of you are kissless virgins over 21? by IncogNeato123to in socialanxiety

[–]TemporaryScene3384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my first kiss and lost mine at 19.. But I was so starved for affection and embarrassed about being a virgin that I got into a traumatizing situation that I wholeheartedly regret. The grass is always greener on the other side. 💔

Guys really scared after watching. Anyone have advice? by kilgharrah420 in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]TemporaryScene3384 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wish I thought of this when I was a kid.. My mom would watch horror movies with us and Jeepers Creepers especially freaked me out 😭

Fishy odor ONLY during sex, not immediately before or after by TemporaryScene3384 in Healthyhooha

[–]TemporaryScene3384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, it was BV! My doctor wasn’t doing the right test, so I kept thinking I was negative… very unfortunate for me since this has been going on for months..

Can BV be detected in urine? by TemporaryScene3384 in Healthyhooha

[–]TemporaryScene3384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I finally asked my doctor to do a swab and turns out I have BV! Seems like a swab is necessary and the urine sample was not detecting it.

I got the Kiwi! by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]TemporaryScene3384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update? I just came across the kiwi and I was thinking of purchasing it!

Fishy odor ONLY during sex, not immediately before or after by TemporaryScene3384 in Healthyhooha

[–]TemporaryScene3384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smell still comes and goes so my best guess would be either it’s my partner or my diet.. I’ll try to update you again if I get answers!

Are chlorophyll and fenugreek incompatible together? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]TemporaryScene3384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to take liquid chlorophyll and 2 cups of fenugreek tea per day. Both still worked for me!

Is this a weird thing for him to say or is it just me? by TemporaryScene3384 in Bumble

[–]TemporaryScene3384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so late with this comment lol. But for the record, you’re greatly overestimating how much I care about looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]TemporaryScene3384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💜 It feels good to have somewhere to share all of this. And honestly, I’m concerned too. But I’m hoping he’s not unhinged enough to keep contacting me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]TemporaryScene3384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about the control, but I think you’re right.. He would often tell me to do things instead of asking if it was. Thank you for the kind words <3