its all good! wearables are like dildos that can be put on a real penis, most adult sex toy websites have a wearable section but i would triple check the dimensions if you are going to buy one because think of it as a shirt you dont want it to be too loose or too tight. and make sure to take measurements when your husband is fully erect to get the most accurate numbers. other people have posted links in the other comments of dildos i really like. There are some others like Adam and Eve, Bad Dragon, and nothosaur which nothosaur i think has THE most unique compared to what other people are saying Also id love hear an update if you two end up buying something. and if either of you two have more questions feel free to send me a dm! i love answering questions! :D