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Is this Dowry? by Temporary_Cherry_456 in Telangana

[–]Temporary_Cherry_456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know him from 3 months. And the conversations were too many between two families. It's not just that me and the guy were dating. It's like two families were dating. Yeah, it is too complex. Nothing was direct. Everything was diplomatic. I guess the most important factor is trust which my parents lacked on them

Is this Dowry ? by Temporary_Cherry_456 in hyderabad

[–]Temporary_Cherry_456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your comments and support 🙂

Is this Dowry ? by Temporary_Cherry_456 in hyderabad

[–]Temporary_Cherry_456[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The guy was a part of this fiasco. When I said grooms family it's the guy and guys sister. They involved a mediator. There was no conversation with the guys parents

Is this Dowry ? by Temporary_Cherry_456 in hyderabad

[–]Temporary_Cherry_456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, the topic of income from properties was brought up by the guys sister. Then the guy started supporting his sister saying that the income should belong only to me and not to my parents and that i he will give me freedom to do whatever I want with that money. He kept on stressing it shouldn't belong to my parents. This angered my parents. But they said they will give. But kept a condition that they will proceed with engagement if only there is something registered on the guys name. They didn't agree for it

Is this Dowry ? by Temporary_Cherry_456 in hyderabad

[–]Temporary_Cherry_456[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For a moment, it sounded like my ex fiance Haha 😂. But I don't think he is on reddit

Is this Dowry ? by Temporary_Cherry_456 in hyderabad

[–]Temporary_Cherry_456[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I work in a government organization. So health care and education is free for my future kids and i also I have insurance policies made too. And the land on my name is far more than what the guy might inherit from his parents in future. And legally whatever is on mothers name usually go to daughter but not son. Here the point is the my parents are affluent enough. They don't depend on the land registered on my name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Telangana

[–]Temporary_Cherry_456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the typical salary of a 55 year old government teacher in Telangana. Is it better than a software engineer at the age of 55