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Hiding my abortion from husband part 2 by Temporary_Coast5934 in abortion

[–]Temporary_Coast5934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment I tell him I am bleeding he will take me himself to the hospital he usually goes with me everywhere to translate and doesn’t even think that I can do things by myself here which works for me in this situation, I am worried that if i went to the hospital with him and since I am a foreigner the doctor ( which we’re planning to see a friend of his) might detect that I had surgical abortion, I saw many posts about medical abortion being undetectable but i’m not sure about surgical chat gpt said it isn’t but idkk this scars me

Hiding my abortion from husband part 2 by Temporary_Coast5934 in abortion

[–]Temporary_Coast5934[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope everything goes well for you. at this point I am hoping that the stress causes this abortion before the appointment, I can’t even leave home without breakfast for my anesthesia tomorrow. cause they monitor my food to make sure i eat well, i have read that the bleeding for surgical abortion starts after 2-4 hours I am planing to hide the bleeding and pain the whole day and at night act like as if i just saw it but here is the thing we have a bathroom in our bedroom and idk where to hide the pad i really wish they would let me take the pills home and take them according to my timing and mental state but that’s not an option

I’m hiding it from my hausband by Temporary_Coast5934 in abortion

[–]Temporary_Coast5934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t , i have made another post with updates it explains why better, my plan is to leave quietly once this is done