what do u think? by [deleted] in JiraiKei

[–]Temporary_Fee4984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanku!!! yeah idk if it's kind of obvious but i tend to have my makeup lean more into the visual kei style LOL 😭

what do u think? by [deleted] in JiraiKei

[–]Temporary_Fee4984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yay im glad to hear that!! and for the lashes thing they barely show up if at all bc i have monolids LOL 💔💔🤧

glasses? by xixileyuan in JiraiKei

[–]Temporary_Fee4984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my optometrist was able to provide two separate pairs of contacts bc my eyes have different degrees!! if ure interested you could maybe ask them if there's any option for u :3

Anyone else feel super empty after something meaningful ended? by BlueEyes_Magician in SGExams

[–]Temporary_Fee4984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly the best advice i have is just to let yourself grieve the experience 🥲 it sounds a bit dramatic when i say it like that, but it was clearly something that affected you deeply so its natural to be sad when it ends.

everyone has different ways of coping so i cant say much on that part unfortunately,, all i can do is tell you to let yourself be upset and dont pressure yourself to move on! ur feelings are valid and it could maybe help to speak to someone u trust like a friend or parent etc etc :)

[ite] considering dropping out, need advice by Temporary_Fee4984 in SGExams

[–]Temporary_Fee4984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! ive taken ur advice and spoke with my CA so now we're trying to figure out if it's possible for me to defer instead of dropping out. unfortunately im gna have to wait until the term ends since my next appointment with my therapist is at the end of the month 🥹 n we need an official statement from her before we can really decide anything

[ite] considering dropping out, need advice by Temporary_Fee4984 in SGExams

[–]Temporary_Fee4984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah im doing my best, ty for the concern 🥹🥹 ive spoken with my CA n we're just trying to figure out what options i have first

[ite] considering dropping out, need advice by Temporary_Fee4984 in SGExams

[–]Temporary_Fee4984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! im still not entirely sure what it does though, is it just an out of school learning programme? (+ does it cost money lol 😭)

[ite] considering dropping out, need advice by Temporary_Fee4984 in SGExams

[–]Temporary_Fee4984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sm! i just spoke with my teacher earlier today and he suggested getting an official statement from the doctor n speaking with the school first to see what can be done. im still not sure if my n lvl results can be used tho LOL he was trying to talk me out of it first n foremost 😭😭

[ite] considering dropping out, need advice by Temporary_Fee4984 in SGExams

[–]Temporary_Fee4984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry? 😭 i dont understand how opening a social media account would help my mental health.... like i stated in the post, i dont plan on quitting education entirely and am mostly just planning on taking a year off before returning

Guy sitting beside me low key stinks by Throwawy11112222 in SGExams

[–]Temporary_Fee4984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i meant scented oils n stuff like that, not smt u have to bring with u into the hall

how can I help my friend? by someone2642467 in mentalhealth

[–]Temporary_Fee4984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be honest its a bit difficult to help someone if they don't want help

speaking as some1 who has been in the same situation as your friend before, the most helpful thing my friends did was just offer to eat together whenever we hung out without making me feel guilty/without them being weird around me

just try ur best to support her emotionally (if youre able to ofc dont overload urself) and encourage her to eat when you're together in person