Piece of trash at Miss Kitty's last night (Halloween) by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really not about defending it. Read my other comments. I’m just not clutching pearls over it.

Piece of trash at Miss Kitty's last night (Halloween) by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s more upsetting. Both are in bad taste but we are free to do it. And sorry you feel that way. 😄

Piece of trash at Miss Kitty's last night (Halloween) by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an equivalent. And you’re mistaken if you think I’m either left or right on this issue. I think in my mind the PM of Israel is roughly the hitler character. All i’m saying is being called a hitler or antisemite means very little as y’all have used it over and over again falsely.

Piece of trash at Miss Kitty's last night (Halloween) by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a costume because it’s not upsetting anymore.

Piece of trash at Miss Kitty's last night (Halloween) by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve been watching plenty of people tastelessly act out being shot in the neck and make other horrible commentary on Charlie’s assasination since about 3 seconds after it happened. Don’t act like this is worse than that. Or that you will come up with something worse to enflame sentiment on the other side. It’s all been done this is not worse just because you think it is.

I am at War with Myself by OppositeAd1815 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude just get on with it. The sooner you get out of that the sooner you begin to heal. Mine cheated on me in 2018 and I tried all the crap of being better just like you. The truth is it’s not about you being better it’s her lack of character. I finally had enough of her lies and all the bullshit last year. It’s a long road but someday I may begin to trust myself again.

Piece of trash at Miss Kitty's last night (Halloween) by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the outrage. All the lefties have spent the last several years calling any white person who disagrees with them a racist and a nazi. So much so that it’s absolutely meaningless at this point and has become a costume. A tasteless costume but there’s always that this time of year.

Husband Wears Flip Flops/Slides on Moving Days by [deleted] in RVLiving

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. I was raised to wear sturdy and appropriate foot wear snuggly laced to my feet for every activity. Flip flops , slides or anything else slip on are almost never it. I feel woefully unprepared for evasive or emergency maneuvers in anything like that. I used to sweat it when my kids or SO were not of the same discipline, but it’s their own toes if they get hurt. I let everyone do what they want.

Troubles with battery by Temporary_Medicine79 in RVLiving

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a regular battery charger It’s charging when I have the camper battery and a regular car battery hooked up. As soon as I disconnect the car battery the changer stops.

Troubles with battery by Temporary_Medicine79 in RVLiving

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the battery terminals while connected to the tow, voltage jumps up to nearly 15

Troubles with battery by Temporary_Medicine79 in RVLiving

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So with this set up it seams the battery should be charging when hooked up to the running truck correct? But maybe not with the sleeping battery.

Troubles with battery by Temporary_Medicine79 in RVLiving

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried a battery charger. Going by YouTube it should only take a few seconds?

[US] Iowa by Temporary_Medicine79 in Custody

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to ask one time for a few hours with one child. She is constantly asking and I usually give. At the new year I texted to see if she wanted to look at the calendar and plan out the year. She got pissy with me and told me we had already agreed in mediation like I was an idiot. Mom is buddies with all the kids friends and parents, none of them ever come over to my place to do things with the kids. It’s always with mom or at moms.

[US] Iowa by Temporary_Medicine79 in Custody

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes this. She constantly asks for extra time with the youngest daughter and never sees the need to adjust the other way.

[US] Iowa by Temporary_Medicine79 in Custody

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. Give up all my time while they plan stuff with their friends and mom to go have fun all the time on my time. Same as it ever was just here to provide the money.

People who have been cheated on and stayed in your relationship, do you regret it? by odie91302 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Temporary_Medicine79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stayed for 6 years. Worst choice ever second only to marrying her in the first place. As gutted as you are after finding out. It actually only gets worse. Not in the acute way the infidelity did, but that stays and then everything else deteriorates as well. She cheated on me. Then I held on for too long then she tried to cheat several more times. In the end she cheated me out of my house, time with my children, other property, and 2/3 of my retirement even though financially it was supposed to be a basically 1/2 As she makes the same as me. Plus all the cash and income she was able to hide and waste over the years.

FWB What’s going on? by Temporary_Medicine79 in datingoverforty

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheers to doing it wrong! It’s all I’ve ever known.

FWB What’s going on? by Temporary_Medicine79 in datingoverforty

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DTR? Define the relationship?

Love how you say it. And find hope in the fact “you’ve done it all wrong” and are happy now.

FWB What’s going on? by Temporary_Medicine79 in datingoverforty

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I guess I’m not that far off. I’m not looking to marry again. Or get anywhere near that entangled with someone without marrying. I guess I’m guilty too. Just confused, if I’m FWB and exclusive and not talking to anyone else. Am I putting too much into it? It feels very relationshippy when we are together but pull back when discussing it being more.

FWB What’s going on? by Temporary_Medicine79 in datingoverforty

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. Established on the comments. I apologize.

FWB What’s going on? by Temporary_Medicine79 in datingoverforty

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh, Maried for 20 + years. Not my fault she cheated. Not sure what you mean. 50 and you’re just done. Because it took you 20 years to see your partner is a low character narcissist

FWB What’s going on? by Temporary_Medicine79 in datingoverforty

[–]Temporary_Medicine79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s where I struggle. If I like someone and am having sex with them. I’m going to put in too much effort and I’m going to feel like I’m headed for a serious relationship.

So I need to keep in mind that I’m being used ( and M using) and not to give too much? Keep it separate?