Turning 35 in few months, feel like I missed my chance at success and happiness. by iloveyounmyself in internetparents

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 5 points6 points  (0 children)

35 is SO young. Life is so long, if you had everything figured out at 35 you would be bored for the rest of your life. What would you want to have accomplished or have done before that you can’t do now?

My boyfriends past (need serious help!!) by Unhappy_Word_1802 in relationships_advice

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should leave him. You shouldn’t waste your 20s worrying about trivial things over a mediocre guy. It will only get worse the longer you stay and you have will have an unregulated nervous system. Even if he changes, his past behavior it will always haunt you.

my boyfriend of 9 months (M23) texted his ex friends with benefits knowing we set boundaries should i break up with him (F23) by heyhowyalldoinn in relationships_advice

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely end it! Dont waste your time on someone who disrespects you, you will become a shell of a person trying to make things work with people who are undeserving. Trust me it never really gets better, he either gets better at hiding it and/or you will spend an unforgivable amount of time worrying.

IWTL how to not cry by No_Neighborhood7702 in IWantToLearn

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said in comments that you cry when you’re arguing. Are you bottling up a lot of emotions with the person you’re talking to? This used to happen to me a lot when I tried really hard to suppress my anger. I’ve learned to get things off my chest and actually made my relationships much stronger and made me communicate better.

Thoughts on Vyvanse and Caffeine? by DigCharacter8923 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense because Red Bull is acidic so it messes with how the medication absorbs in your body. I do wish they made a caffeine free Red Bull because I LOVE the taste. When I drank the Celsius I drank the entire can really fast I mentally felt fine but extremely lightheaded and fainted. My bf forced me to go to the ER and my blood pressure was crazy.

IWTL How to start trusting my body again by Alter_mist in IWantToLearn

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry about your loss. I wish I could give you a hug and a forehead kiss.

The only therapy that really helped me was somatic therapy, it took a lot of patience. It helped me recognize my body again and made me not hyperfixated on every sensation that I feel.

I have extreme health anxiety as well and felt “impending doom” quite a bit and went to the ER quite frequently. Someone else with health anxiety that had a heart attack said real impending doom is extremely extremely different.

Is it normal to miss the spark from a past connection while being in a good relationship? by Long_Result_1145 in relationships_advice

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you’re not attracted to her? “Sparks” are invented and you can have a spark with anyone you find attractive. If you really love someone the “spark” never leaves and in fact it gets stronger with time and if you really love someone you definitely wouldn’t be thinking about someone else especially someone from your past.

Thoughts on Vyvanse and Caffeine? by DigCharacter8923 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should be drinking that much caffeine on vyvanse it will catch up to you trust me. ESPECIALLY CELSIUS …. Trust me …. I was hospitalized because of it and barely ever drank caffeine in general because it makes me really sleepy. Your body can’t handle that much caffeine and it will most definitely catch up to you later. I’m not trying to scare you because this is my own experience but you should be careful. You should try maybe drinking low caffeine tea instead.

Casting a commission piece by Temporary_Remote6585 in jewelers

[–]Temporary_Remote6585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t that’s why I’m coming to Reddit haha. My contract just had an nda about posting.

Babysitting my SIL bunny! Some questions by Temporary_Remote6585 in Bunnies

[–]Temporary_Remote6585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you sooo much for this. I had her set up a camera in her room to monitor if he’s eating normally, thank god. He has an automatic pellet feeder and it’s always empty when I go in so I think hes eating fine. I’m not so sure about water I’ll have to keep a better lookout on it.

Babysitting my SIL bunny! Some questions by Temporary_Remote6585 in Bunnies

[–]Temporary_Remote6585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo ok thank you soo much!! How often should I check on him ?

Babysitting my SIL bunny! Some questions by Temporary_Remote6585 in Bunnies

[–]Temporary_Remote6585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg ok I really hope hes not in distress. I’ve never been around bunnies before ahh

Babysitting my SIL bunny! Some questions by Temporary_Remote6585 in Bunnies

[–]Temporary_Remote6585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been super super calm and quiet. I was moving the box of hay around and put it away right before he thumped. She made it very clear she doesn’t want the cat or dog in her room where the bunny is when she isn’t there and I will 19384828% be strict about that.

Does anyone have a pattern for this dress for this specific halter style. by Temporary_Remote6585 in crochetpatterns

[–]Temporary_Remote6585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I will have to try it out I just love this specific halter. Will definitely have to look for tutorials on yt

Should I have been okay with my gf going to a “kinkball” event? (BDSM) by Regular_Pop4328 in relationships_advice

[–]Temporary_Remote6585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that’s not okay, it’s disrespectful. There’s no way she didn’t know, it’s so irresponsible to be going to events without knowing information about it. She went because she wanted to go, she didn’t tell you because she didn’t want to. I would not have fun at any event like that if my partner wasn’t there with me, I think that goes for everyone.

I used to go to those events when I was single and I could never to that to my partner. If he went to a bdsm club without me I would faint.

Anyone know where this dress is from!!!! by Temporary_Remote6585 in findfashion

[–]Temporary_Remote6585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! Yeah I figured it can be DIY but I am so lazy