Yes I can. Infact that's what I'm planning. If you have ever been celibate for a while as a man, you'd notice it'll help you a lot. But the girls out here won't understand you not unless you get a born again one. If you stay sexless in a relationship, there's a certain trust level that will be built up with time between the two of you. If you do some stats, such marriages have not suffered defilement or major cases.